I'm sure just about every area of nursing deals with difficult family members at some point, but I just have to vent some spleen about conditions on our unit recently. I wouldn't dream of walking into a place where I am utterly unfamiliar with the work done and starting to tell the employees how to do their own jobs; why is it okay for parents to do that to us? Where do they come up with these ideas, like milk can only be taken out of the fridge ten minutes before a feed or a micropreemie has to be changed the second her diaper gets dirty even if it's only been half an hour since the last one, and why don't they listen to us when we try to use logic and rationality to explain why we do what we do? I educate until I'm blue in the face, but they put more stock in what another parent (of a baby whose history and clinical picture is completely different) has told them in the hallway. I'm spending more time every shift documenting about parent interactions than about the actual baby, and it's getting to the point where I'm feeling like -- what is the point, even, of trying to teach parents to do things correctly, when they're going to do whatever the heck they feel like anyway?
Thanks for reading, if you've gotten this far. It's just incredibly frustrating and demoralizing to feel like I'm stuck between doing what is best for the baby and not pissing off the parents.