Travel Nursing - In SERIOUS need of advice

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Specializes in Stepdown/PCU - Med/Surg-Tele.

Hey guys,

It's been a while since I've posted here, and I really need some advice from fellow nurses on this one. It'll probably be a longer post, so bear with me. :saint:

SO. I currently work on a Med/Surg floor at a wonderful (albeit small) hospital. I've been here for over a year and previous to that I work Stepdown/Telemetry. My long term goal is to become a Women's Health NP, and am currently in school towards that, still doing pre-reqs though.

I have always, always, ALWAYS had a burning desire to travel. If I stay in one place for too long I get restless and have this crazy wanderlust about me. It's pretty strong to say the least. So a little while back I submitted a form online to get some information on travel nursing, since I didn't know much about it other than it generally pays pretty well and it's a good way to see the country while making a living.

I talked a recruiter and got some general information, but since I told her I wasn't too sure what I wanted to do, we haven't talked further.

Here's my dilemma...I'm married to an amazing guy who is also in school currently, he's almost done with his degree, maybe a year or so more...no kids yet but we WANT kids. We've actually been trying for a baby for the past year or so, but have had some hardships in that department and are considering taking a break should we decide to travel for a year or two. I'm only 24 so age isn't a factor in that department.

But I'm having a really hard time making up my mind. As I said, traveling is almost imperative to me. I get so much out of it, I love having new experiences and growing as a person, and the idea of getting to work in different hospitals and learn all kinds of new things excites me as well.

But we REALLY want kids. I don't know why I feel so impatient, I have so much time. Probably because hubby and I have been together for a long time and I've always wanted a family.

Also, I really don't care for med/surg too much - was actually considering cross-training or doing an internship in Women's Health if I decide against traveling, because I know I won't be able to do anything else if I travel. I guess I feel like if I'm seeing new things and having awesome experiences I won't mind the med/surg part so much, because I'll always have something to look forward to on my days off, exploring new places and all.

And I worry about school, because I don't want to be in college forever - although I have plenty of classes I could take online.

I worry about the financial part....I have some debts I'm trying to pay off, will this travel nursing thing provide enough income alone to support my husband and I, AND be able to pay our bills? I work weekend nights and make about $30/hour average right now.

I worry about being away from family...even though I know it won't be for the rest of my life and I can still come visit them. And also they're not very supportive which makes it really hard....they'd rather me just stay in Georgia. :arghh:

How does travel nursing work in the time off department? Do you get PTO? Or vacation/sick time?

ANYWAY. Those are just some of my main concerns. But I feel like in my heart I need to do this. I've never really done something of this caliber for myself, and I feel like it's really important to get this out of the way before we have kids. But I'm so impatient to start my family!

What do you guys think? I know this was totally too personal and more of a stream of consciousness. Hubby is all for this adventure - and excited at the prospect - but it scares the hell out of me! (Although thrills me at the same time!)

Any opinions on all this mess would be greatly appreciated! Or any general information about travel nursing, as I don't really know TONS about it. I just feel like life is pulling me in a million different directions right now, and I don't know where to turn. Figured it would help to get it off my chest.

Thanks in advance if you made it through all of that!!!!

-A very conflicted nurse in Georgia :x3:

Hi! I am not a nurse (yet) but I think that you have already made up your mind. I love traveling myself...I was an army brat and moved around a lot when I was a child. I say go after your dreams before a child comes into the picture because although they are a blessing they do cause your plans to and dreams to shift a little. I want to become a traveling nurse but I have to keep in mind my child. I tell myself that I can always get into when she's off to college but I think by then I will want to be close to home. I'm not saying that it will never happen for me or that I regret my family but if I had the opportunity to switch a few things around I would. I say if your husband supports you and you all still are not expecting just yet...go for it and enjoy or you'll always say "what if". I hope my rant helps you!! Best of luck!

Specializes in OB.

One thing to factor in: As a travel nurse you do not get PTO or sick leave. Any time you take off is on your own dime and may also incur financial penalties. If you do get pregnant while traveling you will not be eligible for FMLA.

You can't have it both ways..."traveling is almost imperative to me. /But we REALLY want kids."

Only you can decide which comes first.

Travel nursing will more than pay the bills. But where will your husband be when you travel?

You could choose to travel for a year or so.. baby can come later. Once you are a mother, travelling will be much more difficult.

Specializes in Case mgmt., rehab, (CRRN), LTC & psych.

Since this post contains an inquiry about travel nursing, it has been moved to our Travel Nursing forum to stimulate more responses. Good luck to the OP.

You can take off as much time as you like between assignments.

You can also bring children with you too! Small children are somewhat easier logistically unless you plan to home school. All the successful travelers with kids that I've met have traveled with a non working (or home worker) relative.

A bit bit of a pipe dream, but I always thought it would be cool to have a nurse spouse. You can each work opposing three days and do full time child care the other three days. Full time parent, oodles of money and professional satisfaction, and one full day off together as a family (plus a few hours daily). It almost happened to me, but alas she proved fickle.

Specializes in L&D/postpartum.

My last staff job was great in that my manager was really supportive about vacation requests, so don't underestimate the benefits of a staff job in which you are established and know the ins and outs of the scheduling processes. As a full-time employee I was able to take several international trips each year by self-scheduling efficiently and using minimal PTO. Depending on your travel RN contract you might not have that flexibility, and taking time off between assignments means not getting paid during that time. You don't need to be a travel nurse to travel, it's about just going for it.

While anyone can do holiday travel, there is a very big difference between vacationing and working a relatively long term in an area in getting to know it. I had a traveling construction job before I became a nurse and my typical "assignment" was two to three weeks in a hotel in a given location eating restaurant meals. It was like heaven becoming a travel nurse and spending a quality three months working with locals and living locally in an apartment submerged in the local culture and being able to cook my own food. You don't get that on a typical vacation. Travel nursing is a working vacation and instead of spending huge amounts of money being a tourist, you actually earn money and develop professionally in a way you cannot do with a staff job.

Staff jobs have their place for mass employment, are good for benefits that many require as well as the orientation now required by new grads, and for those whose ties to the local area are too strong to work away from home. Since this thread is now in the travel nurse forum, you can expect posts to be travel biased.

Specializes in Peri-Op.

They both have their benefits, Travel vs Staff.

Having young children isn't a deal breaker if your husband doesn't mind either staying home and not working or working from home. Agencies will accommodate you on housing and your pay will be at least what you make now. Just remember that you still have to make your home payments when you are on the road. With small kids I think the easiest way to move around would be in an RV. The payment in general will be way less than your stipend for housing(unless you go way overboard with a $300k+ RV).

I homeschooled my son from 6-10th grade, I would not want to do elementary school at home though. We now have a home base in Oregon and he is going to school in a real school until graduation. After he graduates I will buy a small house wherever he wants to go to college and keep that as my "home". My wife and I will travel for 6 months while working in high pay areas and then spend the other 6 months doing whatever.... She will not be working on the road.

Specializes in L&D/postpartum.

There are obviously differences between a vacation versus 13 weeks somewhere, and it looks like the OP may be able to do a few assignments given her circumstances. However, she said she wants to use travel nursing to help pay down debt, which may or may not be a good idea depending on a variety of factors we don't know, and whether her husband can be employed on the road. She also does not particularly like her current specialty and would like to cross-train to something else entirely, and is actively working toward a NP degree. While travel nursing might be good if she needs a way out for a bit, most of her long-term goals seem better served in a permanent setting. I was just pointing out that those wanderlust needs can be accomplished in different ways, or the OP may simply be better served relocating to a larger city.

Specializes in Peri-Op.

I have way more free time as a travel nurse than I did as a staff nurse. I also make more than I can working staff. Having an in demand specialty is nice, ICU/ER/OR/L&D...... My contracts always have it written in to pay for education up to $2500 per contract(first contract was $1000) I have used $1500, on average, out of each of the last 3 contracts. I don't think that is too bad since a lot of employers don't pay too much any more for education reimbursement. That equals $10k a year IF I used it all. It is for listed for use on licensure, certifications, CEUs or continuing education.

You can also travel on your own for some away time and plan it out right. Fly home a couple times during contract with written in time off working around your shifts, written in your contract, and fly your SO out to see you a couple times. Depending on where you are it can be cheap. Flights from Denver to Portland over summer were about $150 round trip...

Specializes in Stepdown/PCU - Med/Surg-Tele.

Just getting back on here and seeing all these replies. You guys seriously rock. :-) Thank you so much for all the advice and support!

After much much discussion, tears and frustration, Hubby and I have decided to go for travel nursing. All the particulars haven't been decided on yet, I'm going to post another thread asking for general advice/information regarding some questions I have related to travel nursing, but we've decided we'd both like a break from trying to get pregnant and would like to do something for ourselves. TMI, but we've had issues with fertility for the past two years and we've been so stressed that we just reached a point where we wanted something different!

I dont know know how long we will travel, as I do still plan on getting my NP and he'll want to settle down and work eventually, and of course we want a family, but I'm only 24 so we have plenty of time. :-) It was really tough making the decision to hold on babies for a while and throw caution to the wind and go travel, but I think it will be good for me. I need to sew my wild oats before a baby comes along I suppose!!!

And if it means I'll be stuck in med/surg for a little while longer, I've made peace with that. I do have some step down experience and was considering asking if I could go that way instead, but I can hold off on cross-training if it means I get to travel sooner.

Thank you guys so much again!!! If you see my other thread with my questions, feel free to drop by! You guys are awesome!

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