We had a patient who wished to be identified as a female. She recently started hormone treatments and she looked female. She hadn't gotten the reassignment surgery. The day shift decided to let her sleep in the female room the entire shift without incident.
The night shift came in and asked that she stay in the general day room or the male room. This made the patient very upset.
This became an interesting discussion. We agreed she is male and so couldn't be in the female room. It would have been uncomfortable for the other women. But she couldn't be in the male room because she chose to identify as female and also looks like a woman; it wouldn't be safe anyway. This was in the emergency room where there were no assigned beds and the general area had pull out chairs that patients could sleep in.
The dilemma is, how would that work on a patient unit where women and men are separated?