hi. i really need your opinions on this, please tell me what you think.
my mom passed away about 7 months ago. she was very sick. she had m.s, had a heart attack, had heart disease, was diagnosed with diabetes a month before she passed, along with many other things. she had pain 24/7, was constantly tired. she was only 43. she was very sick, especially more-so at the last few months. she couldn't bathe herself, couldn't go up/down stairs, couldn't really controle bladder anymore, could barely walk, and she never left the house. she began having difficulty breathing and even stopped breathing once. she went to the hospital and was put on life support twice. she developed pnemonia. (not from the life support). the doctors said that she would never get better. she had a feeding tube put into her nose. the doctors said that all they could do for her was so perform a tracheotomy and put a feeding tube into her stomach. because of her m.s all the food/liquid that she would consume would fall directly into her lungs and she would aspirate. she was very very sick and wouldn't get any better. the doctors said that even with the tracheotomy she wouldn't still be back and forth on and off life support for the rest of her life. my family made the decision to remove her from the life support. the past month before she even went into the hospital she had been saying "i just want to go home, i want to see my mom and dad, i can't do this anymore." we removed her from the life support and she passed about about 4 and a half hours later. we did this out of love because she was sick and knew she wouldn't recover fully from this... but now i worry: are we going to go to hell? is it okay what we did? is that our place to do that (god). etc...like is my mom being punished because we did this? i just worry so much. any bodys opinion would just be wonderful, please tell me what you think. thank you, in advance, so much.
jennie