"I want to go home" Story Time

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I'm still just an awe of the interaction I just had. It's not too bad, just surprising.

A student comes in, says that he was diagnosed with pink eye and a throat infection 2 days ago, and started meds 2 days ago, "late in the evening." Afebrile, good coloring, couldn't tell which eye had pink eye to save my life. Says he just doesn't feel well and doesn't think he should be back in school. I ask him if he told his parents that, and what they said. He says yes, and that they sent him to school anyway.

I find (most) parents are a pretty good judge of character.

I ask him what he wants (because I know what he wants). And he says he wants to go home. So, I pull some more and get him to admit that he just wants me to call his parents and say he needs go home. Nope, full stop! No fever, meds for over 24 hours, you don't look "sick," nope, can't do it. (If I were to call it would have been their decision anyway since I don't need to send him home.)

Try to offer him pain meds (since his throat hurts really bad), and he just stands up, says "never mind" in that surly "I didn't get my way" teenage voice and slams my door on the way out!

The guidance counselor came over and asked if he really just did that! I have actually not had that happen so blatantly before. And I really just needed to tell people who would understand the just, "*****" of it.

But, the life of a school nurse, right?

Specializes in Pedi.
See what I mean? I'm sticking with the little ones.

Exactly! I have only had one little one use a cell phone to get a parent, and that was enough for me! (Why a 4th grader has a cell phone at school is a whole other conversation for a different day!)

Exactly! I have only had one little one use a cell phone to get a parent, and that was enough for me! (Why a 4th grader has a cell phone at school is a whole other conversation for a different day!)

We have a few grade schoolers that have "watches" that act as phones and can only call one number - regardless of the "no phone" policy. I just had a kid tell me a few kids in his classroom have these. These kids are K-5 and there's a phone in every bloody classroom, why any parent thinks the kid needs to have their own is beyond me.

My kids got our old phones in 7th grade. Because we both worked. They weren't smart phones.

Now we are all addicted. I just texted my son in the basement to bring up the laundry. :bag:

My ex-husband got my oldest a cell phone for her 10th bday (after we discussed that 10 was too young for a cell phone). It has limited minutes and no data plan so she has to be on a wifi network for any apps that need internet.

To be honest, I love that she has it. It is really convenient for me and her. And a great consequence to lose for behavior issues.

Fifth year as school nurse. First 4 at Jr High, and believe me, the door slamming at that age was off the charts. I chose to pick my battles. If it made them feel better to slam the door because I didn't give in, whatever. I typically had 4 more in the waiting area and would use it as a teaching opportunity as how not to get your way.

Maybe he's being bullied...

Maybe he's being bullied...

Who is being bullied?

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