I had a well-spoken, educated woman as my patient. She had this pretentious vibe to her, but I found her to be polite. That is, until I explained that cath care needed to be done and the rationale behind having to do it.As I'm performing the cath care, she said, "Don't you find this degrading? I would never do this!" I was offended, of course. It's not like I'm a stripper or something, I'm taking care of people here. How can that truly be degrading to me? And I think I was mostly annoyed, too, because I offered to give her what she needed to do the cath care herself, but she declined. If you're not happy about someone else washing you, you'd do whatever to ensure you could to wash yourself, right? In this instance, I said, "Well, Im used to doing this sort of thing. It's important that you don't get a UTI" because I didn't know what else to say. If/when someone has said something similar to you, what did you say to them? And... What did you REALLY want to say instead? :)
