My work is in palliative care and takes place in a hospital.
I get that nobody has time so to speak. All healthcare workers including physicians, nurses, aids and others have the same dilemma: More patients with more complex tasks with the same amount of staff or (more often) less staff = more tasks to complete with less time or more tasks than time available.
I understand that discussing code status and "options" is time intense and has gotten more complex and confusing. Furthermore, it seems to cause a lot of ambivalence and endless questions about possible scenarios that may or may not happen - which is why providers are not especially enthusiastic when they hear that the patient or family wish to discuss.
The fact that everybody - regardless of age and health status - by default is a "Full Code" with the potential for maximum treatments leads to a lot of misunderstandings for patients and their families when they are not aware of this. People need to know "what they are signed up for by default" when there is a chance that they are being subjected to resuscitation because of illness and/or age.
There is so much confusion around advanced care directives ! And it gets worse every year I feel because we are adding more biomedical "options", medications, and interventions.
The least meaningful "conversations" that I have overheard over time include sentences like
"Do you want to live?"
"Do you want us to do everything?"
"Do you want us to bring you back from the death?"
"Do you want us to break your ribs when we jump on your chest?"
"Do you want us to do everything or nothing?"
"Are you ready to give up the fight?"
You get the idea....
I mean, what kind of language is that????
When I asked about the reason for using "do you want to live?" outside of the patient's room the explanation was "I have to be time-efficient and this is what it comes down to. The patient said clearly she/he wants to live - that means full code because we will try everything to make it happen."
To be honest - I was speechless.
I totally get the time argument and with effort I can follow the "logic" but the patient for sure did not understand based on this conversation what resuscitation means.
Or the implications. Or if this is actually congruent with the patient's values /preferences/ wishes - because the physician does not know that without asking other questions.
Today, I also listened to this podcast that is about this kind of problem - I can highly recommend it :
Geripal Podcast Live with Laura Petrillo by GeriPal PodCasts | Free Listening on SoundCloud
Do your physicians/NPs/ PA use any specific format to discuss code status and advanced care planning?