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FMLA abuse
You are not the FMLA police.
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Ethical dilemma
Snitches get stiches. Just kidding, but there's nothing to snitch about. In my workplace we have templates, so the same note might show up on 100 patients daily.
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Feeling stuck as a new LVN — did I ruin my career?
Unless there is a safety issue, I don't care if anyone cuts corners. Some policies are just unnecessay verbiage thrown together to satisfy TJC.
- Mental Health
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Have you ever been attracted to a patient?
No, never. However, I had a patient tell me he was in love with his psychiatrist. Transference, perhaps.
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Reality of being an RN + full-time student?
I worked full time while studying for BSN and MSN. You just have to set priorities.
- Do charge nurses or ANM get paid more at your facility?
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Patient compliments and feedback
I worked at a hospital where the ANM nominated the night charge nurse for a Daisy award. This particular nurse had a sense of self-importance and always patted herself on the back and blamed others when she made a mistake. Most of us were convinced that she got the award because she always said yes to OT. The ANM did not know or did not care that she slept on the job from about 2-5 a.m. every night she worked, a firing offense.
- 12-Hour Shifts Led to Fatal Crash
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Tips for Psych RN Charting
Think and chart like a reporter: Data: C.M. is a 56 y/o male with a diagnosis of MDD admitted on 4/5/2026 d/t suicidal ideation. Patient stated, "I gambled away everything, my wife left me, and I lost my job. I have no reason to live. . . I was going to take the whole bottle of Tylenol. I don't know why I didn't.” No protective factors elicited. Action: Administered medications per MD orders (see eMAR). Offered 1:1 therapeutic communication. Encouraged pt to practice gratitude and set SMART goals. Encouraged pt to avoid isolating and attend therapy groups. Pt attended music group but did not engage with music therapist. Assessed pt for safety. Ongoing 1:1 monitoring by MHT in progress. Response: Pt denies SI/HI/AVH. Pt rates his depression 7 on a 0-10 severity scale. Stated one of his goals is "to get a job when I get out of here.”
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Resignation, Early Retirement
Has anyone been told whether VA nurses are eligible for Trump's resignation offer?
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Nurse 3 VA Proficiency
Where I work, nurse III seems to be impposible. I was hired as an MSN, was an active participant on two committes, attended conferences, wrote and edited several policies, and implemented a project, yet I was denied Nurse III. So, I quit the committes, I'm not doing any extra work, and I'm not attending any more conferences. My new favorite word is no.
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Why do I struggle more with younger nurses than older crusty nurses?
The fact that you call older nurses "crusty" speaks volumes, and not in a good way.
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Dissatisfied with Job Role
My advice is for you to advocate for yourself the ame way you would advocate for a patient.
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Working during school?
I did it when I was in my 40s and it was easy. I worked 32 hours a week as an LPN, 16 Saturday and 16 Sunday.