Hi all- I'm new to the hospital I'm currently working at in CA and I've had an issue with the way this place does next of kin consents. A lot of the doctors will call a family member on their own time, then put in an order for RN to get consent, at which point it is then the nurse's job to call the NOK and ask them that the MD spoke to them about surgery and if they have any questions and then have a second RN there to verify. I got in some trouble because I didn't feel like this was adequate consenting as I wouldn't know the appropriate questions to ask or answers to expect to ensure NOK knows the risks/ benefits/ other options and it feels wrong to put my name on a legally binding document saying I was witness to something I wasn't present for. I got a lot of heat from the House Sup and Charge Nurse telling me I couldn't refuse to do it and them going to other nurses and asking them how they do it to "prove" it's okay. I just want to know am I out of line or saving my license? Thanks!