Poorest lack of judgment EVER!!!

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My hours are 8 am - 3:30 pm. Every single day. I have made it clear many times that anything that occurs before 8:00 am needs to be dealt with by admin or call the parents directly, etc. Any emergency they call 911.

As I am backing out of my driveway at 7:12 am this morning to drive my kids to school, I get a text on my personal phone from one of our teachers that "A student was hit by a car this morning and is waiting for me to check her in my office"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I proceeded to text back "Absolutely NOT OK. Call 911 NOW, Call Police to file report and call family. In that order. I am driving my kids to school and cannot be involved in a back and forth about this". A few minutes goes by. Another text. "Grandma is with her. I don't think the car was driving very fast when it hit her". :banghead: I again sent the above text and then reminded her that I am not on duty yet, have NO WAY to evaluate the status of the student and they need to call 911. If grandmother refusing that, to have her take the kid to to ER. I also reminded her that I was driving, in my car (I was not texting and driving don't worry) and could not have this conversation and they needed to deal with it. She proceeded to text me a play by play for the next 20 minutes. I did not respond.

I am currently sitting in my office, door closed, trying to decompress so I do not attack anyone. The teacher who texted me is outside my door teaching a class and I am counting slowly to 100 before I go about my day.

Am I being unreasonable here to think that this was completely out of line and a complete lack of judgment? Who cares if the "car was barely moving when it hit her"?! No one saw the incident occur so no one can determine how fast the car was going, if she fell and bumped head, etc. No one. What did she think I was going to do over the phone? This also occurred in our crosswalk, with one of our teachers acting as the crossing guard, so I am assuming there is liability, etc. I am having a meeting with my OPs director ASAP (she is not in the building which is probably why this happened in the first place).

Vent over. Thanks for listening. Kid is fine by the way, in ER now to be safe and just shaken up more than anything.

Specializes in IMC, school nursing.

That child who wished for the hugs said he appreciated the nurse in me when he degloved a football size portion of his shin and we immediately assessed the situation and scooped him into the car to drive to the fire station. Was headed to the ED, but that little voice kept saying he needed more than the community hospital could do. He got plenty of love on the ambo ride and overnight inpatient postop.

Specializes in School Nurse.
This is true and it's very chicken and egg... which came first? Do those in the medical field become able to clinically separate their emotions during an emergency or did they go into the medical field because they had this ability?

Very interesting perspective, never thought of it that way.

That child who wished for the hugs said he appreciated the nurse in me when he degloved a football size portion of his shin and we immediately assessed the situation and scooped him into the car to drive to the fire station. Was headed to the ED, but that little voice kept saying he needed more than the community hospital could do. He got plenty of love on the ambo ride and overnight inpatient postop.

Yep! We nurse parents can do both! When my daughter broke her arm- it was all clinical while I called for an ambulance and talked to the doctors in the ER. The day of surgery, I knew she was in good hands and did all the cuddling post op and slept with her in her hospital bed

Specializes in Cardiology, School Nursing, General.
Yep! We nurse parents can do both! When my daughter broke her arm- it was all clinical while I called for an ambulance and talked to the doctors in the ER. The day of surgery, I knew she was in good hands and did all the cuddling post op and slept with her in her hospital bed

I had a friend at my school who fell 1 story from the middle stopping point of the stairs (2 years ago I think?) And hurt her hip. I was so worried by what happened to her, especially because these kids are like my own babies. I kept myself calm and her calm, by talking to her, making sure she's still conscious. I went to visit her at the hospital to make sure she was fine and since then, I done it as a tradition to visit students at hospitals, no matter the reason and if the parent is okay with me visiting.

People don't see this, but when they are under our care and school, they are OUR children.

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