Yesterday morning I accepted my last sigh, complaint, or roll of the eyes from a couple of the day shift RNs I report off to. I started a year and a half ago and these two were very unhelpful and unforgiving to a new RN. They clearly still think of me as a less-than-proficient RN, which, thanks to a healthy self-esteem, I know is not the case.
I usually let it roll of my back and forget about it. It's not worth getting upset over...besides that gives them the upper hand. If I don't respond to their little jabs, then they aren't getting any satisfaction, right?
Yesterday morning I had a fairly involved admit come to the floor at 0610. Due to computer glitch, patient was not in the system to enter the admission health history when I was doing it, so I did on a paper form and when I was done with admission at 0640 patient was still not on my system. At that point I had to give 0700 meds and prepare for report. I handed her the paper form with the health history on it and mentioned she would need to enter it. She flipped out. Didn't come out and accuse me of being lazy, but her inference was clear. Refused to enter the history. I entered it after report because I did not want to risk it not being entered. In hind sight I should have handed it back to her and told her that I did what I could, and if she chooses to not enter it that it will be on her hands and then emailed the director.
This RN as well as another one are habitually dismissive and haughty to newer RNs during report and I've taken the last of it. The next time this happens, I'm stopping report and in a firm but professional voice explaining that I expect the same degree of respect and professionalism that I give to them when I receive report from them. And if they don't like it, they can take it up with the director. I'm sick of this crap and it is going to cease in 2012.