Hi all,
Sorry this is long. I need your advice, I'm at my wits end and hope I'm doing the right thing and hoping it's not too late. My husband says I should know what to do since I'm a nurse now, but knowing what is right for my patients is one thing, and doing whats right for my kids is something totally different, I dont have the doctor, doctors orders or charge nurse, to go to if I have questions or concerns, like I do with patients.
Well, my 10year old son has just started the 5th grade and his first week was just horrible. All throughout his elementary education he has had problems with focusing. No hyperactivity, at all, but the boy can sit and daydream or find anything else to do, except class/homework, while sitting quietly at his desk or at home at the table. I had been hoping that he would outgrow this as time went on, his teachers have said "boys mature slower than girls, give it time" but its getting worse. And its not only school work, he has a horrible time following verbal directions. I have to tell him several times what to do before he finally gets it. Like going to retrieve something from another room, I tell him what he needs to get, he repeats back to me, what he'll be getting and where to get it from, then he'll come back empty handed, multiple times(just an example)
He does get frustrated, and asks "why are other people able to do things easier than me."
Well, I took him to an ADD specialist. I dont want his academic career to go down the drain. He only has one class and one teacher right now, and has trouble handling that. Soon he'll be going to Jr High and I'm afraid he'll get really lost and give up on school. He is able comprehend his work, but cant get organized enough to do it. Hes actually quite bright, has high test scores, when he actually can finish the test.
The doctor had a meeting with me and my son, we did all of the paperwork, in which there is tons of. And she is recommending meds for him, we go in Tuesday to talk about all of our options.
Can anyone advise me on what to be cautious of. Maybe what meds should set off alarms and bells, and what meds for ADD you have had good experiences with. I know meds affect everyone different, but any advise will be welcome.
Thanks
J