I recently finished watching the Apple TV show "The Me You Don't See" about mental health issues throughout the world. It really moved me and inspired me to think about what we can do for the nursing community. We are now over a year into a pandemic that has affected everyone on the planet. Nurses continue to battle as cases in the US are back on the rise despite an effective vaccine that is widely available. I've seen nurses giving interviews about how frustrating it is to see the overwhelming suffering every time we are at work and yet people still don't believe that it is real. How do we keep fighting when some people don't believe that the enemy exists? Keep Fighting Don't get me wrong, there were problems in healthcare before COVID, however this pandemic has hastened the burnout among many nurses. I thought maybe COVID could just burn the healthcare systems to the ground and we could start over, but that didn't happen. The healthcare systems are coming out on top, and the staff is suffering. We suffered short on staff, short on supplies, short on legitimate appreciation from the systems that we work for and to top it all off, half of the country doesn't believe what we are seeing every day. I don’t think that nursing itself is toxic; I think that the environments that we work in are. It wasn’t always like this. Hospitals are run like businesses, not places of healing. The bottom line is all that matters, not how patients are actually cared for. The people at the top are so out of touch with what is happening at the bedside as nurses are just trying to provide the best care they can with what little time they have. Too much emphasis has been put on making it look like we provided good care without actually giving us time to provide good care. This is not what we became nurses to do. We Must Speak Up How do we finally speak up and demand that our voices are heard and that we are valued? How do we put our mental health first and our well-being first without being made to feel as though we are not "team players"? How do we change this cooperate machine that has taken over hospital systems? Healthcare systems would rather tolerate the high cost of nurse turnover rather that fix the problem of nurse burnout. We are not martyrs; we are human beings who are caring for other human beings. If we do not take care of ourselves nobody will. Change must happen before things get worse. We need to be the change that we want to see. We need to make it happen for the future of nursing, for us, and for our patients. It starts with us no longer accepting the unhealthy work environments and finding better places to work. It starts with us no longer feeling guilty about prioritizing ourselves and our families. We need to demand better or find it elsewhere. We Need to Begin Somewhere ... I honestly don’t know how to begin but we need to begin somewhere. I think it will only get worse before it gets better if we don’t start standing up to the powers that be. I know we hesitate to say no to picking up shifts because we know they will be short without you, or staying late to help out, or staying at that toxic job because if you leave it will make it even worse for those that stay. They expect us to do that at this point. What if we all started saying no and prioritizing ourselves and safe boundaries? What if we made them start dealing with the problem of staff retention and nurse burnout? Imagine the possibilities of actually being able to work with safe staffing, having the equipment you needed to do your job and to actually really be able to provide the care that you know is needed? It used to be like that and it can be like that again if we all work together. 5 Down Vote Up Vote × About bbear2102, MSN, RN I graduated from nursing school in 2004 and obtained my Masters degree this summer. One day soon I hope to start teaching at a nursing school and have the chance to positively impact the lives of nursing students. Specializes in ICU and Education. 1 Article 11 Posts Share this post Share on other sites