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Here's a problem I run into quite frequently- the female nurses come to me on a regular basis to insert indwelling foley catheters for their male pts.

I work in an ED as a float nurse, rarely taking pts of my own but primarily to act as a support team member with the largest scope of practice so as to assist during codes and other high acuity pts. So I always hate saying no when asked by a primary nurse who wants help. However, it's starting to become a real trend where many of the nurses are coming to me saying, "I think it would be less awkward for another male to do this". Yes. That is the exact, word for word quote I was provided.

What do you think? Is her, the primary nurse's argument valid? Or do you think she's just trying to put off an unsavory task?

I would like to Thank all who read my post. I know not all nurses are like the one I had in the hospital last year. That was the first time in 50 years I was in a hospital never had to go. It was a shame that he never asked me any questions. Never having a catheter at my age I think was doing good. I was 59. To have him just come and force it into me hurt like H.... I did not here a kit open any washing covering or any Jel. The second time he did it hurt worse He kept pushing it in and out. Never got it in. There was blood on the catheter and some on my gown. They just walked out. I will never forget that and it will not happen again. Please continue to fellow the procedure and you new nurse listen to what the older nurses are telling you. In closing my urologist told me that he could have hurt me more then he did not knowing I have s stricture in the urethra. You must ask questions of your patients. Thank you all you do the world a service Ken

I feel strange vibes from some pts, and I get a female to hook up a five lead sometimes.

That said I am always helping others. I have zero issue asking the opposite sex to do something private anytime it doesn't sit right in my gut.

That said nobody has ever given me anything other than "no prob" anytime I have asked. I work hard, and while everyone doesn't always agree with what I do, nobody ever denies that fact.

If someone asks me to do anything and while I'm doing it they are on Facebook, I don't do anything for them again. If their pt needs something that's different but I will tell powers that be " I am doing xyz while abc is on Facebook". Blatant abuse deserves no love, genuine assistance, I'll bend over backwards.

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I am a very provide person but if your in the hospital the nurses are there to help you but the way it went with me I felt like a piece of meat. There was a male nurse and a female nurse in the room at that time. They never said one word to me or my son Just leave the room. About 30 years ago I worked in a nursing home has a orderly I took care of both men and women. With having 10 patient I tried to give them has much dignity has I could. I work there for 5 years and the last year I was a ward secretary I work at night and took care of all 4 ward. I just would like the nurses to remember sometime the patients are scared I know I was..Take care and thank you Ken

Sorry to say this but many males do not feel comfortable with another male touching them.

A doctor is not a nurse....

Specializes in Telemetry.

Good. God. Where do these people come from?

Give me a break. :rolleyes:

Specializes in OR, Nursing Professional Development.

Skydog, it is impossible to know who you are responding to. Please utilize the quote button as each post goes to the end of the thread and is not directly adjacent to the post you are responding to.

And I'd also like to see your sources for

There so many male aids and male nurses involved in hospital sex charges. Hospital have paid out million because of males nurse/techs and aids. It involves male and female rapes, not just female.

Man up do you honestly think female nurse are there for the fun of it.

You are on all the blogs putting down female nurses. Personally I would bet you are a male nurse pretending to be a male patient. If you would like a male tech or male nurse give you a barium enema go right ahead but don't push other men on men.

Not only prostate issue but strictures. Inserting a cath when a patient has a stricture can damage the urthra. Big problem in ER...........

And for the safty of the patient.

Sky....Yes it can. And if you don't know that you have one it hurts like hell. Let me said first that I have great respect for nurse's male and female. I know that they are there to help you. Last year ended up in the hospital. Long story Had sepsis. Was on IV'S. Doctor asked for a urine sample. I just pee before I went to the hospital was in kidney failure. The infection hit everything. I told the doctor that I did not need to go and I don't pee on demand. He walk out and I heard him say we will see. Well within 10 minutes had 2 nurses 1 male and 1 female come in to my room. I ask what was going on. No answer. He told my son to leave. I asked again and still no reply. They I heard him they the female nurse to take my pants off. Before I could say anything I had a catheter force in me. After that I gave up. He pulled the first one out and forced another one in yelling at me do I have a prostate problem. I told them no I pee before I got there. Without a word they left the room. My son came in and ask why did they not answer me. I told him what they did. I have never had a catheter in before and did not know a lot of things about them. All they had to do is come in and talk to me explain it to me and why the doctor needed it. After all of that I peed a hour later on my own. I looked the procedure up when I got out. It was nothing like that The way he did me I felt like a piece of meat. No kit no cleaning no information. Please to all nurse explain anything you do to anyone you take care of. I forgot to tell you when he pulled out the second catheter there was blood on it and I had blood coming out. Let me come to a end went to a urologist he found a stricture just before the prostate. Told me that I was lucky that I was not damage more from the catheter being force in because they would not been able to get it in the bladder. Thank you for reading this and good luck to all Ken

Specializes in Nephrology, Cardiology, ER, ICU.

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