So here is my situation:
I am a nursing student in my junior year while working 2 jobs. I work as a CNA in the hospital as my main source of income, and i work as a CNA in a nursing home to pick up periodic shifts here and there....so its not that often.
So my dilemma is in with my job at the nursing home. i work in the dementia unit, and i've been there for four years i am used to all sorts of different situations. however; one of our newer male residents has gone far beyond my comfort level.
He literally hits on the younger, more "attractive girls." We are used to him making remarks like "Get into bed with me sexy" "I like your body"....or him just plane pleasing himself when one of the younger more "attractive" girls is present. he does get hard, quite often....like when a girl just walks into his room is like BAM!! ok so RARLEY does it ever become a huge issue...like, he makes comments but if we state "No, i am married" (even though were not) he will give it up for a while. So the last several times he has actually cornered me in his room, with him hard stating "Do you like it? huh? do you like it?"....he has grabbed my butt numerous times. I read back in his charts and noticed that he has been doing this almost every shift!! literally, NOTHING has been done. Like i know there isnt a whole lot you can do about it....but its like its being ignored! It is such a violation to us as workers.
So the other day he corners me in his bathroom and grabs my breasts and says "OoOo those are nice, im going to get lucky"...without saying anything i just forced my way out of it and left. i got the nurse and stated "You finish his cares...i am done!"
well....it got reported to the DON that "I did not do my job and finish a residents cares"
Ok...so i really stood up for myself stating this is a HUGE violation of my privacy. and the DON goes on and on about how "he doesnt understand, and he doesnt know what he is doing"
SO THAT MAKES IT OK?!? no....i should NOT have to go through with that at work, i don't care how confused he is...i should not have to put up with someone groping me. And the fact i got in trouble for refusing to finish his cares? what the heck was i supposed to do??? let him sit there and grope me? i dont think so.
So i really argued with her....i speak my mind!!! she was like "Well if you girls would not wear your clothes so revealing"
WHAT?!?!?! they are SCRUBS!!! ok, i wear normal scrubs like anyone else....i dont wear them tight, i don't cut them so my clevage hangs out, i dont wear them where my underwear sticks out. i wear them just like anybody else.....
the DON wont do anything about this.....the fact i am in nursing school, i do not want to risk ANYTHING. i have a huge fear that something is going to happen and i could have reports filed against me and what not.
What would you do??? I requested not to work with him and she pretty much ignored what i requested stating i am over-reacting. Is it wrong to ask that?? i cannot risk my nursing career.!!!