Kicked out of LPN Program

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I've been in my LPN program for a couple of months. In my program, I was the senior citizen at 49 years of age. As our program is very rigorous and moves at a fast pace, I was able to excell in the program due to my maturity. In fact, I kept my average around 96% on all of the tests and turned in my assignments in a timely manner.

Last Friday morning, on my way to my first clinical orientation, I was involved in a very serious automobile accident. A person rear ended me on the interstate. I was going 65MPH, and the guy was going 100MPH. I spun through 3 lanes of traffic and ended up in the median. My car was folded up like an accordian. Luckily, I am alive, have suffered only whiplash, 2 broken ribs, and lower back pain. I was checked out of the hospital with sufficient meds, and a wrap for my ribs.

Returning to clinicals, I was out of place, having received no orientation, I felt like a duck out of water. I did my best for 2 days, but was unable to move patients etc. The instructor, who I respected, pulled me aside on the third day, and suspended me. She told me that she wasn't kicking me out of the program, but that I could take the next CNA program, then start all over in the next LPN program in Feb. As I have made a midlife career change, my finances only allowed me to budget expenses for a year, and this would take 50% longer, and continuing in this program would not be economically feasable.

Yesterday, I spoke with the head of the Nursing Department to discuss the matter. My instructor had made out an incident report to cover her ass containing many inaccuracies and downright lies. In it, she accused me of basically throwing a tantrum, not reporting my prescriptions....which I did, and generally being an ass. I asked the head of the nursing program for a copy of this incident report, and she refused to give me a copy, citing confidentiality. I thought I was entitled to see all of my records.

I did, however, get her to agree to refund all monies that I had paid for tuition, and write a letter that said I was withdrawn from the program on September 21. We shall see if any of this occurs.

As for me, I'm 49 years old, have no job, am injured, and my mental state is a total mess. The future for me is not bright. My auto insurance company is the same company of the guy who hit me. The insurance company is trying to cut corners, and not pay me what is a proper amount, and now I'm going to have to hire a lawyer.

None of this is my fault, not one bit. I left home a week ago, all excited for my first day of clinicals. Instead, my life is ruined.

Jeff

A little over the top....IMHO

Why is this a "Little Over-The-Top"? If this was a female police recruit or fire recruit or some other "Male Dominated" career field, then the media and legal communities would have a hay-day with it. I am only in pre-nursing and have put up with an anti-male bias almost from day one. I do not believe it is as bad in the work-place/ hospitals, but the schools/universities are definitely WAY BEYOND unfair! If you were wronged, Jeff, and you are the only one here that knows for sure, I say SUE!! :angryfire

Specializes in Education, FP, LNC, Forensics, ED, OB.
Why is this a "Little Over-The-Top"? If this was a female police recruit or fire recruit or some other "Male Dominated" career field, then the media and legal communities would have a hay-day with it. I am only in pre-nursing and have put up with an anti-male bias almost from day one. I do not believe it is as bad in the work-place/ hospitals, but the schools/universities are definitely WAY BEYOND unfair! If you were wronged, Jeff, and you are the only one here that knows for sure, I say SUE!! :angryfire

The issues with the OP has nothing to do with male/female discrimination. This is strictly the school protecting themselves and the student and the patients. Period.

The issues with the OP has nothing to do with male/female discrimination. This is strictly the school protecting themselves and the student and the patients. Period.

Not necessarily, as I said, he is the only one privy to both sides. If there are females in his class that are being given special treatment or even more favorable treatment and a pattern can be shown, then it is more than a "School Protecting Themselves" it is discrimination!

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.

quote "I was not discriminated against per se. Even though the rules are selectively enforced, I'm not going to charge discrimination." from post #10 on this thread.

He refered to another student getting 'special treatment,' however, did not say whether that person was male or female. Also stated that another male in the class had the rules bent for him.

I don't feel this is discrimination as well.

Just because you do not "feel you are a victim" does not mean you were not victimized! 10 years ago, my wife was sexually assaulted by her boss, it took her more than 5 years to accept the fact and openly admit she was the victim. People who are discriminated are victimized as well, but differently. Just because the OP doesn't believe himself a "victim of discrimination" does not mean he was not discriminated against. If we are not careful, we can stay in this "World of Denial" too long, just like we did in the 1960's and 70's with regards to racial discrimination. And don't mis represent what I am trying to point out, I am extremely anti-litigation and even anti-lawyer, but if he is being discriminated against then it is HIS right to seek what ever recourse HE wishes. :angryfire :angryfire :angryfire

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.

Just because he doesn't feel like he was victimized doesn't mean that he WAS. It's his life, his decisions.

Last post on this thread, i think the subject's taken a turn from the original problem.

Specializes in Education, FP, LNC, Forensics, ED, OB.

Yes, please stay on topic. When reading the original post from the OP, this is not a case of discrimination. But, the inability to do the required tasks in a nursing program. The OP even made the statement that this was not a discrimination issue.

Believe me I would be one of the first to cry "foul" if I thought for one minute that this was a discrimination issue.

It is unfortunate that the OP had to quit the program. And, we/I wish him much luck in the future.

I've been in my LPN program for a couple of months. In my program, I was the senior citizen at 49 years of age. As our program is very rigorous and moves at a fast pace, I was able to excell in the program due to my maturity. In fact, I kept my average around 96% on all of the tests and turned in my assignments in a timely manner.

Last Friday morning, on my way to my first clinical orientation, I was involved in a very serious automobile accident. A person rear ended me on the interstate. I was going 65MPH, and the guy was going 100MPH. I spun through 3 lanes of traffic and ended up in the median. My car was folded up like an accordian. Luckily, I am alive, have suffered only whiplash, 2 broken ribs, and lower back pain. I was checked out of the hospital with sufficient meds, and a wrap for my ribs.

Returning to clinicals, I was out of place, having received no orientation, I felt like a duck out of water. I did my best for 2 days, but was unable to move patients etc. The instructor, who I respected, pulled me aside on the third day, and suspended me. She told me that she wasn't kicking me out of the program, but that I could take the next CNA program, then start all over in the next LPN program in Feb. As I have made a midlife career change, my finances only allowed me to budget expenses for a year, and this would take 50% longer, and continuing in this program would not be economically feasable.

Yesterday, I spoke with the head of the Nursing Department to discuss the matter. My instructor had made out an incident report to cover her ass containing many inaccuracies and downright lies. In it, she accused me of basically throwing a tantrum, not reporting my prescriptions....which I did, and generally being an ass. I asked the head of the nursing program for a copy of this incident report, and she refused to give me a copy, citing confidentiality. I thought I was entitled to see all of my records.

I did, however, get her to agree to refund all monies that I had paid for tuition, and write a letter that said I was withdrawn from the program on September 21. We shall see if any of this occurs.

As for me, I'm 49 years old, have no job, am injured, and my mental state is a total mess. The future for me is not bright. My auto insurance company is the same company of the guy who hit me. The insurance company is trying to cut corners, and not pay me what is a proper amount, and now I'm going to have to hire a lawyer.

None of this is my fault, not one bit. I left home a week ago, all excited for my first day of clinicals. Instead, my life is ruined.

Jeff

Hi,

Just came across your post (years later). Did this work out for you. Did you return to school and are you a nurse now? I hope it worked out, that situation was so not fair to you.

No, my life has steadily gone down hill from there. I returned to my old profession after semi-healing, only to get severely injured, need extensive neck surgery, and then get let go after the requisite time that they wouldn't get busted for throwing a workman's comp person out on their ear. . My money has run out, nobody is hiring at all, and I'm one step from being homeless. For all those naysayers that blasted me in this thread and passed judgment, I hope that you are doing better than I am. Remember that karma is a ***** and you will someday be on the receiving end. I just hope that people treat you better than you treated me.

Specializes in Case mgmt., rehab, (CRRN), LTC & psych.
I just hope that people treat you better than you treated me.

Here's a hug. (((((((HUG))))))) :redpinkhe

I truly hope that your fortunes improve. Good luck to you, and may your life be filled with blessings and positive occurrences from this point forward.

Specializes in Medical Assisting.

Very sorry that you went through all that..try to keep your head up! Hope something positive comes your way!

I just wonder if the other male in the program, who is a minority, and has flunked 4 tests and had to re-take them, should be caring for patients.

Wow, just wow. What does he having to be a minority have ANYTHING to do with anything? I'm going to go out on a limb and say you were in no condition to care for patients, the whole POINT of clinical. Also, you stated that the instructor accused you fo throwing a tantrum- judging by that statement you made- I really could see that to be the truth.:mad:

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