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Healthcare is more like a jungle as opposed to an orderly system.
The recent weeks I took care of many patients 90 + , quite few of them actually 95+.
I get that autonomy is viewed as the "highest good" and patients/families want to be "partners in their care" - but come on:
When you are 90 + years old frailty is real. It is not something that I make up. What are the chances that you are going to be ok if you get subjected to aggressive medical interventions including resuscitation with chest compressions and breathing tube?
Families do not live together anymore the way they used to.
And, family does not want to "get involved" much either. They work, have their own family or health problems, are not interested in getting involved. It is very frustrating.
In addition to the general "custodial care" problem, there is also no common sense.
ow can you be a "full code" when you are 90+ even though you might be in "good health" - whatever that sometimes means. It is crazy.
If you are in your 90s, your next of kin or surrogate decision maker may be also already i the 70s. I get patient-centered care and autonomy - a great concept - but the way it is carried out is really poor in my opinion.
People seem more unable than ever before to actually make decisions!
They get hung up on details that are non relevant in the bigger context, they do not understand all the implications, but also do not trust healthcare providers or put $$$ first.
The system is broken.
I encounter families and patients many times a week who need 24/7 help - custodial care - and who do not qualify for medicaid - they have assets or do not wish for medicaid to put a lien on a house. They also can not provide care to their aging parent and do not want to spend the money for long-term care. They bounce back and forth several times between hospital, rehab, and perhaps home for a day or few days. They are not rehab-able. Once they get close to the days allowed or approaching D/C and the family does not make plans to take the family member home, they rehab facility finds a reason to send them back to the ER - otherwise they get stuck with it.
When you are 90+, chances are there is always something wrong with you and admitted because everybody is afraid of ending in a law suit.
People hope that they "just die" in their sleep or while they are bouncing around - I hear that all the time. "when I get home this time, I just go to bed and die" - only that really does not happen anymore and not nowadays.
And why is it that we expect non medical professionals to make vital decisions that have huge impact on their health and quality of life. Last time I checked, resuscitation is still a medical "treatment" , which is the reason you need a physician order of you do not want that treatment in the community or hospital. So, logically, if this is a medical treatment - it should not even be offered if it harms more than it has benefits - "do not harm." But - it is approached in the disney-consumer style that does not make sense. Families do not want to make decisions that leaves them feel guilty.
I hear a lot "I cannot make that decision for my father - I do not want to kill him." The way it is approached is putting huge stress and burden onto families and patients.
The system is broken because primary care physicians who should have discussions and now also get reimbursed by medicare for advanced care planning still do not have discussions. They know that the patient will call 911 and once they start bouncing around "somebody" will have to address it. The lamest excuse I have heard recently is "it never came up - the patient was doing well" - when I said "really - there has not been a reason to discuss with the 98 y old patient and family that it is time to prepare for the future ???"
The acute care hospital was never set up to have those discussions and care planning on a routine basis. But that is what we do now all the time. And because it is not really our job to fix everybody's dysfunctional family life, dysfunctional dynamics, and we are not financial planners - we often just put a band-aid on.
What is it that Medicare and insurances do not get????
The problem is in the community but there are not much incentives or initiatives to fix it. Instead, the acute care place gets penalized for re-admissions or not paid for inappropriate admissions. But at the same time, medicare pays for the magic "short-term rehab" but only after a 3 day admission stay, which is often used by families to bounce a patient around at the EOL so they do not have to make any decisions or spend money on long-term care - in hope that the patient will "just die."
They do not get that you do not "just die" when you are in the system.
Yeah - the system is broken.
Stop bouncing people around at the end of life. Approach advanced care planning the right way and stop consumer disney style interactions that make no sense whatsoever.
Four principles of medical ethics are wonderful things when they are used in correct way. Pushing patient with very limited life expectancy toward aggressive chemo with known severe side effects and not expalining that max possible effect of shrinking mets 20% doesn't mean 20% chance to be cured is not "beneficience". Keeping someone in persistent vegetative state on vent for 10 years through all pneumonias and such is not "nonmaleficience". And allowing people who cannot successfully manage their own lives to make that level of medical decisions independently and accepting those decisions without further questioning has nothing to do with either "autonomy" or "justice".
I will remember to the end of my life 90++ y/o demented, legally blind, b/l AKA already and hooked to dialysis three times a week poor soul who was pretty much used as a guiney pig to try out a new state-of-the-art "closed chest" surgical system. Her family wanted "everything to be done to fix her right up" and the surgeon wanted to try his new toy. After the system failed and patient was opened up anyway for AVR and several bypasses, she was promptly left to die in ICU in the role of "teaching tool" for residents. She was too unstable for effective analgesia most of the time, and it took her a full month to finally depart in Heaven.
Thanks for the post!When I worked on burn, we'd call in the palliative team to discuss treatment management whenever we had an older patient with numerous co-morbidities who would probably survive the initial burn but for whom the numerous required surgeries, rehab, etc. would probably take a toll. The conversation would inevitably be something like "Okay, what's your goal?" and the patient would of course say "I want to get back home and live independently like I did before the accident." So we'll have this 80 year-old with bilateral full-thickness leg burns with poorly controlled dm, afib, htn, hld, cabgx3, copd, a bit of dementia, who wasn't really fully independent before the accident. It's like what the patient really wants is a time machine to take them back 40 years. But we can't do that...
So sad - discussions can be better.
You need social workers in the hospital to address these issues with families right then and there and explain what the various options are. (Because patients and families don't know.) Then make it a goal to get a POLST signed for every appropriate patient. It's human nature to avoid difficult decisions until they are right in your face.
The sad thing is that we have everything in place. I work for a palliative care team in the hospital. There is no lack of social worker. We are actually ahead of many places because we have trigger systems in place that trigger information and identifies patients in the hospital who are appropriate to be seen by palliative care. The nurses, case managers and some hospital physicians are also up to the task and address "options and such."
One problem is that the acute care hospital is the worst place to have the initial conversation. People apparently have already a hard time to make decisions - when they are faced with a crisis they get anxious and that makes the whole process harder.
Another problem is that many people do not qualify for medicaid and do not want to downspend. They know and are informed about their options. But if they chose hospice and have to go to a facility, they have to pay room and board - which families often do not want to do.
The problem is in the community but everybody makes it our problem in the hospital because we are stuck with discharge plans and ultimately, people can bounce back to the ER.
Unfortunately, any attempt to change this situation immediately becomes a political football, AEB the mythical "death panels" of the ACA. I can just see the endless religious freedom arguments now.
So ... do readers think we should move more toward the British practice of DNR being decided by the attending physician?
I have quoted a reply I made on another thread to a similar post of yours."You have these concerns as a nurse, as many nurses, physicians, and other health care practitioners do. However, the person at the center of all of this, the person receiving the care, the person who is paying for the care along with their insurance company usually, is/are the patient and their family. Their perspective is often very different, and their wishes are very often not aligned with health care practitioners views of what is sensible, practical, economical, etc. They are invested differently. This is their body/mind and their life, and from the point of view of their family members, this is their loved one. Their priorities are theirs and shouldn't be chipped/bludgeoned away at by health care practitioners who are aiming to do some social good/conserve resources etc.
Patients have the right to be told by their physician what their medical problem/s are; what their treatment options are; the risks and benefits for each treatment option and the likely outcomes of the various treatment options, including the likely outcome if the patient chooses to receive no treatment. Then it is up to the patient and their family to decide what they want.
I think health care practitioners tend to forget that the patient/their family often only wants to be provided with sufficient information for them to make an informed decision, not to have health care practitioners make their decision for them. They have the right to make their own decisions about their health care, and whether or not we believe they are making good decisions is irrelevant as our beliefs are based on our perspectives/values, not theirs.
I really think our angst is misplaced. When we (health care practitioners) gnash our teeth about patients end of life choices/other health care choices, I believe we would be better off doing some introspection. Our perspectives/values are ours not our patients or their families."
I appreciate your critical comment re self-reflection and introspection.
In general, I agree with the notion that healthcare decisions are not ours - they are what the patient and family decide.
But there are several things to consider IMO.
One is that when a physician can clearly come to the conclusion that a treatment will harm more than it benefits or the risks outweight the benefits - they have to take a clear position. After all, there are several ethical principles that are to be upheld. It is our job to make sure that families and patients understand the choices,but some choices should not even exist.
There are surgeon, nephrologist, interventional cardiologist who will correctly identify that kind of situation and not offer a tx based on it. They will say "I am sorry ms x - you are not a candidate for surgery based on xxxx and your best choice at this time is to choose a careplan that focuses on comfort." For oncologists it is obviously different - we all know that. I had family members yell around because they were pinning their "hope" (whatever that means in that context) on some "trial". The oncologist very well knows if the patient is not a candidate because the illness is too progressed but families do not accept it that way. They go into the city and want to be told there.
And - what is often forgotten - it is not ok to give patients/families several choices with no clear recommendation! That is the most common mistake in those conversations. Patient-centered care was never meant the way it is now carried out. For example, an oncologist may say something like "based on what I know that is important to you, my recommendation is not to continue palliative chemotherapy because it has made you weak, had many side effects and landed you in the hospital. I know that you have said it is important to spend time with your family at home - I recommend best suportive care without further chemotherapy and we should also talk about care that focuses on comfort."
Those are 2 options.
There are physicians who hide behind "patient autonomy" which can harm the patient and family when we leave them with all those options they do not understand plus ask them to make a decision that they are not ready to make or when they are overwhelmed.
Some while ago, I was in the ICU. The family wanted "everything " to be done for a bedridden patient with progressed dementia who was unable to swallow and had a sepsis. The patient was 95+ y old and had not been out of bed in ~year. Short of a breathing tube, she was on pressors, iv fluid that gave her CHF, and many other problems. The patient was a full code and the family stayed 24/7. The physician was very stressed out. But when I pointed out that in cases of medical futility there is no need to provide medical tx that are futile - which needs to be verified per two physicians - I was told that while this is true, nobody wants to get sued by an angry family because even though you may not be at fault it will follow your license.
Crazy, right? It was not until the team was ready to perform chest compressions and had the board under the patient that the family said to stop. The patient spend several weeks in the ICU and everybody knew the outcome.
I totally agree with you that care needs to be aligned with values, goals, preferences - having conversations for that is one of the main work that I do. But - when decisions are obviously also made because $$$ is king you wonder how well that really works.
I get that they do not want to burn through mom's savings - which happens when they have to pay 12 000 per month for longterm care. But I cannot change the system that is broken either. I have seen enough family members shuttle their loved one back and forth to "rehab" to get "stronger" although they are not rehabable and are often D/C after few days just because they can not stay by themselves anymore.
Rehabs should not even accept patient who do not have skilled needs or who cannot rehab.
In the bigger context of society, it is everybody's problem. Because guess what - if you pay taxes, you also pay for medicaid and medicare. We pay more money for healthcare than other developed countries and get worse quality of healthcare. Perhaps not apporaching healthcare this way actually leads to better outcome?
I have a lot of compassion and understanding for the fact that decision-making is a process that takes time - which is why it should not start 5 minutes before a person dies so to speak. But I do not support the idea that we just put out "options" and let the "customer" choose without reflection on their choice.
That is poor practice.
Unfortunately, any attempt to change this situation immediately becomes a political football, AEB the mythical "death panels" of the ACA. I can just see the endless religious freedom arguments now.So ... do readers think we should move more toward the British practice of DNR being decided by the attending physician?
Personally, I favor looking at DNR/DNI as what it is - a medical treatment, which is ordered by a physician. If it is a medical treatment, a physician should make the decision based on a medical understanding that resuscitating a person would cause more harm and not change the outcome. The question then always becomes how and who would make those guidelines. And where is the "cut-off".
I believe that based on what I am seeing day to day, that we do not do people a favor by pushing decisions on them when they are unable to make those or when it invokes guilt.
Everybody is afraid of getting sued nowadays, which makes it less likely that a physician will make a clear recommendation or argue with a family who has "unrealistic expectations."
I have seen cases when family was unable to make decisions or the patient did not want to go through everything known to mankind but did not want to be seen as "giving up" etc.
At times, a physician will ask if they want to just follow their recommendations that is based on the fact that he/she has studied medicine and understands all implications. Families are often relieved as it takes that burden off. I have never seen a physician recommend DNR/DNI in an unethical way or when it was not appropriate.
People are so confused - they often think that DNR/DNI equals "do not treat."
So the short answer is "yes" to your question but it should be explained to patients/families properly.
The other day, a 90 + patient said to me "you guys are crazy - they doctor asked me if I wanted to be "brought back if I die" with all kind of things. No - I do not want to be brought back from the dead. I thought you guys had common sense, I am 90 +y old"
- I was told that while this is true, nobody wants to get sued by an angry family because even though you may not be at fault it will follow your license.
And this is why no "system" will ever succeed without tort reform. Physicians are not at liberty to do the right thing when they have to constantly protect their license and their livelihood. I also agree that families should not be offered "choices" that aren't really choices.
We all know how hard it is to have a pet put down when it is time. It's understandable that families don't want to make the decision to "pull the plug". That's why we need healthcare providers to be able to have the hard conversations, encourage realistic expectations and guide the decision-making process with their expertise.
In this day and age of "customer service" we present buffet-style "options" that leave the family ill-equipped to do the right things.
What is POLST? HLD?
Sometimes a facility will not honor a DNR written decision, an Advance Directive. I had surgery scheduled at a particular outpatient center, presented my DNR AD to them, was told they do not honor these and I would have to be resuscitated if I went through with the operation there. While I kind of understand their stance, I was aggravated that I'd be forced and that no one had informed me prior to the day of surgery.
Other than the suggestion to have a Social Worker deal with the problem and to have the topic presented to high schoolers, what suggestions do we have about this? I guess we nurses can handle it with our family members, sometimes anyway.
Read Tom Brokaw's book about his experience with multiple myeloma. So often as I read it, I felt that he simply never really realized that his life, like everyone's life, would ever end. That sentiment might be more common than we realize.
My grandfather lived to almost 100. He was in diapers, kept falling, suffered all of the indignities of being helpless in a facility that was terribly understaffed or filled with lazy workers. He had once been young and vital, was now old and totally dependent, but he did not go gently.
The gerontologist finally suggested to his kids that they consider not treating his next UTI and they decided to take that route. No one wanted him to break a hip or continue living what seemed a pointless life. He went quickly when the next infection was left untreated. It sounds and was barbaric. We need more right-to-die states. They shoot horses, don't they? But we make humans live and suffer. Help us, dear God.
What is POLST? HLD?Sometimes a facility will not honor a DNR written decision, an Advance Directive. I had surgery scheduled at a particular outpatient center, presented my DNR AD to them, was told they do not honor these and I would have to be resuscitated if I went through with the operation there. While I kind of understand their stance, I was aggravated that I'd be forced and that no one had informed me prior to the day of surgery.
Other than the suggestion to have a Social Worker deal with the problem and to have the topic presented to high schoolers, what suggestions do we have about this? I guess we nurses can handle it with our family members, sometimes anyway.
Read Tom Brokaw's book about his experience with multiple myeloma. So often as I read it, I felt that he simply never really realized that his life, like everyone's life, would ever end. That sentiment might be more common than we realize.
My grandfather lived to almost 100. He was in diapers, kept falling, suffered all of the indignities of being helpless in a facility that was terribly understaffed or filled with lazy workers. He had once been young and vital, was now old and totally dependent, but he did not go gently.
The gerontologist finally suggested to his kids that they consider not treating his next UTI and they decided to take that route. No one wanted him to break a hip or continue living what seemed a pointless life. He went quickly when the next infection was left untreated. It sounds and was barbaric. We need more right-to-die states. They shoot horses, don't they? But we make humans live and suffer. Help us, dear God.
I thought it was standard practice to not honor DNR during surgery.
Where I am all the hospitals state that they will always attempt resuscitation during surgery, PACU whether or not a person has an advance directive. The assumption is if an arrest occurs during surgery, it is a direct result of the surgery and is treatable. They also assume that the fact someone chose surgery means they are choosing treatment.
Semper_Gumby
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That hospital sounds wonderful. Would that all hospitals could approach end-of-life care similarly!
My husband's grandmother is in her late 80's, sharp as a tack, living independently and in relatively good health for her age. She has her hot pink DNR paperwork posted on her fridge. I am so grateful her provider had a conversation with her about her wishes! I wonder about my own grandparents, who are all in much worse health and, I suspect, still full codes.
I had a similar experience as a student doing my ICU clinicals. I had a patient in her 80's who'd had advance directives filled out and one of her children was her healthcare POA. She did not want a trach or feeding tube, she wanted to be allowed to pass peacefully. Well, something happened that caused her to end up in the ICU with a very poor prognosis, and from what I understand, her entire family was on board with her wishes--but one. And because of that one, this lady ended up with the trach and feeding tube she didn't want, and that one family member was suing for healthcare POA. I was appalled.
The diploma program I attended (formerly a Catholic hospital school of nursing) taught us to provide excellent, compassionate care. It also taught us the value of a dignified death. I think that's something that is missing from our culture in the present day. People are so determined to hang onto their loved ones that they do everything they can to prolong life in a manner that I think most people wouldn't want, if they really thought about it. It really is a question of quantity over quality and it's unfortunate so many providers are afraid to broach the subject.