Is this true of nursing?

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Today a high school student shadowed me since she wanted to know what I do at my job (I am a community Nutritionist). She wants to become an RD but in my heart I was wishing I could convince her otherwise to pursue something like nursing. RDs are paid very poory. I currently make abour 40K with 7 years experience although I have a 8-5 job-no weekends, no holidays, flexible schedule including work from home if you choose to, but I still cannot get away from the idea of nursing. I saw this post from another RD and I wanted to know if this is typically what nursing entails. This is what she had to say:

"My sister is also an RN. I would never, ever, ever do what she does. Her work is physically hard. She makes good money. Better than me. My hours are better. Her pay is better, but she deserves it. Wipe a few butts, girls, with stool stuck on all sides. She would agree. I use my mind and she does labor. She likes what she does. I like what I do. It takes a very special person to be a nurse. An RD can be physically as involed as she wants to be. I look, without problem, but don't touch and don't want to."

Specializes in med/surg.
Why does "butt wiping" always have to come up?

Someone asked me why I wanted to leave a high-paying career to wipe butts. This makes me very angry.:banghead:

What's so wrong with "butt wiping"? Why do we have to justify it by emphasizing what a small part of the job it is?

I hope that people who think we are nothing but "butt wipers" someday become helpless and require peri-anal care, and that a professional nurse provides it for them with the efficiency dignity they deserve.

I agree !!!! When did wiping butt become our sole duty as a nurse.... BTW everyone has to wipe butt during their lifetime... we just help those who cannot wipe their own... on occasion!

Specializes in Med Surg, Tele, PH, CM.
Yes, it's true, but it's not a "gross" job to those of us who love it. We see helping people wipe their butts as doing something the pt cannot do at the time, so we help......HOWEVER, it's only a small part of what we do. We are also responsible for their lives, as action or inaction can result in pt harm. Nursing is an exciting field, and those who think that all we do is wipe butts is dead wrong.

Bedside nursing is but one facet of nursing today, it is a wide-open field. Since I left the hospital, I have worked Public Health, Ambulatory Care, and Case Management. I like to think that I am impacting lives as much as when I was wiping butts, and I don't have to worry about my back......

before i went to nursing school, i didnt realize how much there was to the profession. now that i am in a RN, i am amazed at the critical thinking skills i HAVE to use everyday and i do postpartum. i did a little stent in the ICU and i wiped a lot of butts but i also helped patients at the most critical time in their life. no person on the outside can understand nursing until they do it themselves.

We use our minds for so many different things in nursing! We are dealing with far more than the nutritional status of the patient. We as nurses are required to have and use critical thinking and many times at a moments notice. No offense to the RD, I respect their job, but rarely do they have to make a decision on a dime with a person's life hanging on that decision. Many times I find the labor aspect of nursing to be far easier than the mental and emotional aspect of the job.

:nuke:I've saved peoples lives. Me. Because I realized something was wrong and corrected the problem......be it v-tach deteriorating to V-fib, 02 sat of 60%, MI, and the list goes on. In that moment you have seconds to act and to make the RIGHT decision. If I had made the wrong one that person would be dead.

How many RD's can say that? You have to critically analyze the problem. Decide which action out of hundreds is the best, and do it quickly enough that no one suffers brain damage or loss of limb.

Hell yeah we use our minds! :nuke: O.K. I work in the ED but all nurses make big decisions that have life or death consequences.

Specializes in Jack of all trades, and still learning.

I think we should get back to the original topic which is: should the high school student be deterred from being a dietitian.

Are the only reasons you want to deter her related to money? Do you find no satisfaction whatsoever in your job?

It is important to let this person make her own decision. Don't push her towards something that she may not like. Think about why you became an RD as opposed to something else...

Yes, it's true, but it's not a "gross" job to those of us who love it. We see helping people wipe their butts as doing something the pt cannot do at the time, so we help......HOWEVER, it's only a small part of what we do. We are also responsible for their lives, as action or inaction can result in pt harm. Nursing is an exciting field, and those who think that all we do is wipe butts is dead wrong.

I'm very new to the idea of becoming a nurse. First I need to take some algebra, biology and chem adult ed courses. This may be a silly question....but I thought CNAs were the butt wipers! BSNs have to do this too??? What's the difference between the two jobs then?

Specializes in ICU, CCU, Trauma, neuro, Geriatrics.

I wipe butts with a smile, I also wipe other things, tears away for patients overcome by the illness they have succumbed to, fear away from family members who really didn't understand what the problem was before I took 20 mins to talk to them, stress away from the doctors when I share information from 4 or 5 family members that puts a better view on what is happening emotionally with the patient. I wipe anxiety away from the whole family when I consult social services and they do their magic. I wipe the fear of the wrong medications when I explain each medication to my patients, what they are ordered for and why they should take them. When they still don't feel comfortable taking that medication I offer them printed information and a consult with their doctor about this issue.

I'm very new to the idea of becoming a nurse. First I need to take some algebra, biology and chem adult ed courses. This may be a silly question....but I thought CNAs were the butt wipers! BSNs have to do this too??? What's the difference between the two jobs then?

Woohoo! I suggest you reevaluate your career choice! At the very least, do some shadowing, or better yet, get your CNA and work in a hospital. You appear to have very little idea what nursing is about, as well as very little idea about what it means to care for a sick person.

Seriously. I'm not putting you down. I just think your post shows that you haven't been exposed to the health care environment much, and before you invest a lot of time and money in a career, you should get some experience that helps you decide if this is for you. At the very least, you should get some hands on experience that helps you better define what it means to be a nurse.

You appear to have very little idea what nursing is about, as well as very little idea about what it means to care for a sick person.

Seriously. I'm not putting you down. I just think your post shows that you haven't been exposed to the health care environment much, and before you invest a lot of time and money in a career, you should get some experience that helps you decide if this is for you. At the very least, you should get some hands on experience that helps you better define what it means to be a nurse.

I'm a massage therapist. I fequently work with the elderly, I volunteer massages for people in crisis at church, and I have also volonteered massages for hospice. I do care for people. And I don't have a problem with wiping butts. I just honestly didn't know that RNs did that. I thought it was more about meds and changing dressing, etc.

Alright then. I guess now you know. As tedious as it can be to look up old threads, maybe you should do some searches on this site about the responsibilities of RNs, and maybe look around on the CNA and LPN forums, too, to get a feel for what your team members will be doing. A huge part of nursing is providing direct pt care.

Good luck with your change in career.

Specializes in Spinal Cord injuries, Emergency+EMS.

a joke from my OR days

what's the difference between a physician ,a surgeon and an anaethetist ...

a physician is paid for what s/he knows

a surgeon is paid for what s/he does

an anaesthetist is paid for both ...

the biggest problem Nursing faces is that it is a role that is seen by the public as peopel are paid for what they do ... not what they know - the public think the Doctors do the thinking ... this is not helped by the way in which Nursing is portrayed in the media - person moan of mine is 'Casualty' in the UK at times states certain of the nursing staff as NPs but we never actually see them practition a patient

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