Instant Gratification

Instant gratification is the act of wanting something and the expectation is that you are rewarded immediately. In nursing, there are often multiple generations working in the same unit. Seasoned nurses can find wanting instant gratification a character defect. Newer nurses are foreign to the concept of waiting. To build a successful team, there needs to be a way to marry the two. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

Indulge me for a moment. Back in the day, nothing was instant but coffee. There was a waiting game for almost every aspect of life. It set people up to have a number of anticipatory feelings. Anticipation is a unusual concept today. Instant answers, instant results, instant communication all lead to question--as a multi-generational team, can nurses really merge the older and younger generations to make things run smoothly?

There are a number of seasoned nurses who decide not to retire. They are in a place where they want to work, they need to work, they enjoy the work.

Seasoned nurses have experiences of having to wait for the means to the end. Therefore, their nursing practice reflects careful and mindful nursing choices. They have to critcally think the whole picture. Their nursing judgement is looking at the pieces to make the whole.

What are we going to do now to make this a positive outcome for the future?

Mid career nurses (meaning the generation "X" among us) are in the middle of their nursing practice as well. Some still have kids at home, have to work, have a desire to work for what they want/have to look to the future, however, are mindful of the present.

This group may have some thoughts of instant gratification at times in their nursing practice, however, anticipate the worst and practice for the best based on their interventions. Generation "X" nurses are more acutely aware of delayed gratification.

Most of their parents used a reward system for most of their childhoods. They were very used to the term "that's not fair". These nurses have a diversity in their work style. They have had to always adapt, so it comes naturally for most nurses in this age group. Failing means to re-group and re-visit and try again.

Newer nurses have always had instant gratification. The thought of waiting is not in their mindset, therefore, the level of frustration goes up when their nursing practice doesn't reflect this concept. Well meaning parents had a great deal of flexibility, some on a friendship based parenting style, which can reflect to others as not being respectful. This is rarely the intent, however, can often be a professional faux pas that more seasoned and mid career nurses will take pause to. Failing is not in the thought process at all. So what is helpful in this generation is multiple appropriate interventions to get a positive result.

Diversity in the workplace can mean many things, and can be related to a multi-generational work ethic. We can learn a great deal from each other and our styles of nursing. If we take the personalization out of the equation, and look to what each generation brings to the nursing practice as a whole can we build a better team. Often, if we look at what everyone brings to the table, reflect on how to deal with the different generations accordingly can we brainstorm ways to increase patient satisfaction, and a good end result for the patients.

Specializes in Oncology; medical specialty website.

Unless you're wealthy, most people aren't going to get much, if any, retirement.

Even if you can't find a nursing position, there are still other jobs out there. You may not find what you want, but at least it's a job and income. Of course, that's a personal decision. If you feel you can afford to wait, fine. Maybe you could continue your education; it could give you the edge in an interview.

I applied for an MPH program and didn't get in. To be honest, I am glad I did not as I had no idea how I would pay for it and having loan debt scares the pee out of me. I was also okay with it because I have flirted with the idea of doing an NP program, when I do get some money, but I have no idea about the licensing part if I can get licensing (and prescriptive authority--that's actually the part of licensing that I think I would have a problem with) as I am in HPMP. I am going to ask the BON about it. Even if it was a brutally honest answer of "no, we will not license you." I would prefer to know before ever considering spending the money on a Master's I could not use.

You know, there was a thread a while back that the guy was a new grad and he couldn't get a nursing job until 3 years out. He was getting so tired of looking for one, that he started looking at the phone company working on power lines I think it was where a family member worked. He was going to just give the nursing thing up, then someone gave him a chance at nursing. I think that gives me a little hope, but the younger new grads (and maybe the older new grads) will become apathetic to finding a nursing job and look at other careers.

I think I am becoming very apathetic with it; the excitement is starting to really wane.

Specializes in CMSRN.
Newer nurses have always had instant gratification. The thought of waiting is not in their mindset, therefore, the level of frustration goes up when their nursing practice doesn't reflect this concept.

I have hadn't a chance to read all of the comments but I would like to say that not all "newer nurses" expect instant gratification. There are many "newer nurses" that are in fact not a traditional new nurse age and are much more mature. I know I am 33 and many of the people I graduated with are 30+ with some being 40+ and a few even being 50+. I know it was not your intention to generalize but that did happen with assuming "newer nurses" were of a certain age.

That was not me wailing about NCLEX. I knew mine could take longer than normal, and it did...a couple days longer. I got word from the BON staff themselves because I asked and it was a hold up because of HPMP. I know, not everyone else's circumstances.

Psychology offices. Yeah, I get that comment. Enough said. I agree with you on that. I actually was not entitled growing up. My parents did the thing where chores were "x" amount of money (say like $.50 for task "x") The more work I did, the more I earned. It was not real money, just if I wanted a toy that cost $10, I earned the money (written on paper, of course) and then when I had enough earned, my mom bought the toy. If I didn't want to do a certain chore (I was not keen on cleaning bathrooms; before anyone says anything, I have PCT exp and have wiped behinds before--I am fine with it. Just because I do not like cleaning toilets does not mean I would suck at nursing), then I could also do worksheets (math, spelling, etc.) for $.10 a page. I ended up excelling in grade school because of it. My mom also took my brother and I to work when she worked as a DON at a nursing home. We had to get the drink orders and pick up trays and such when the residents ate. It helped with the tasks and the elderly people loved us (we were kids then--elementary school age). So, not all 20 somethings got everything given to them.

I actually see more of that in teens and grade school kids now than I saw it in 20 somethings. I guess it is Generation Z. The kids of Gen. X. Generation Y (and some Gen. X) are kids of Baby Boomers.

How horrible and humiliating to be put down during a staff meeting by a comment like "you all know nothing about waiting." Agism really can happen to all age groups. The frustrations of being a new nurse has happened to all new nurses no matter when the career was started, according to my mentors and friends of various ages. I myself know a lot about waiting. Pulling myself out of homelessness and deciding to work part-time instead of full-time in order to obtain an education is one clear example. I am from the generation that you generalized, but I have gasp *paid my own way in life and my four children's way including paying for education. If any one tries to tell me in a professional meeting that I know nothing about waiting, they are going to get a lesson that day. What a judgmental article written to give praise to yourself. Let your work bring you praise.

How humbling. Thank you for pointing this out to me. Not my intent in the least, however, I can see how you would take it that way.

I have been a nurse a long time, and always learning.

You said "Newer nurses have always had instant gratification. The thought of waiting is not in their mindset, therefore, the level of frustration goes up when their nursing practice doesn't reflect this concept." How dare you generalized a group like that?! You obviously don't know how to refer to people in general. I'm an immigrant in the US, worked for 10 years to save money to start nursing school, paid my own way through nursing school, and thanks to God's mercy I'm a RN now. I know what waiting is, so for you to just write this stuff is very disrespectful to say the least. You need to use words like "most nurses" or "some nurses". I'm trying to understand why you posted this kind of comment... Next time be more careful.

jadelpn, now you are in the line of fire. Welcome to the "Rock the Boat" club. ;)

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That was not me wailing about NCLEX. I knew mine could take longer than normal, and it did...a couple days longer. I got word from the BON staff themselves because I asked and it was a hold up because of HPMP. I know, not everyone else's circumstances.

Psychology offices. Yeah, I get that comment. Enough said. I agree with you on that. I actually was not entitled growing up. My parents did the thing where chores were "x" amount of money (say like $.50 for task "x") The more work I did, the more I earned. It was not real money, just if I wanted a toy that cost $10, I earned the money (written on paper, of course) and then when I had enough earned, my mom bought the toy. If I didn't want to do a certain chore (I was not keen on cleaning bathrooms; before anyone says anything, I have PCT exp and have wiped behinds before--I am fine with it. Just because I do not like cleaning toilets does not mean I would suck at nursing), then I could also do worksheets (math, spelling, etc.) for $.10 a page. I ended up excelling in grade school because of it. My mom also took my brother and I to work when she worked as a DON at a nursing home. We had to get the drink orders and pick up trays and such when the residents ate. It helped with the tasks and the elderly people loved us (we were kids then--elementary school age). So, not all 20 somethings got everything given to them.

I actually see more of that in teens and grade school kids now than I saw it in 20 somethings. I guess it is Generation Z. The kids of Gen. X. Generation Y (and some Gen. X) are kids of Baby Boomers.

She was talking about the various posts from the ever riddled anxiety on AN; the posts from bent out of shape people who get mad because they are "glowing" with 3.7s or 4.0s yet got "passed over the person with a 3.0 or less"-with years of healthcare experience or was in the community, worked or other tangibles that did well on their entrance exam that evened out and got in instead of them, lol. Also what you speak of is those attachment disorder kids; patent who do that "helicopter" patenting. Not necessarily related to across the board for this or future generations either.

Thanks, Lady. As always, you are the buffer of the situation. I mean that in a nice way. :) I hope the AN people eventually make you a guide.

Specializes in Pediatrics, Emergency, Trauma.
You said "Newer nurses have always had instant gratification. The thought of waiting is not in their mindset therefore, the level of frustration goes up when their nursing practice doesn't reflect this concept." How dare you generalized a group like that?! You obviously don't know how to refer to people in general. I'm an immigrant in the US, worked for 10 years to save money to start nursing school, paid my own way through nursing school, and thanks to God's mercy I'm a RN now. I know what waiting is, so for you to just write this stuff is very disrespectful to say the least. You need to use words like "most nurses" or "some nurses". I'm trying to understand why you posted this kind of comment... Next time be more careful.[/quote']

Instant gratification can be attributed to circumstances, background, etc; it's not exclusive to generation, either. If anything the OP had a point to a specific number of individuals that handle situations like the OP stated; that DOES occur. I'm sure it wasn't personal; "newer nurses" are of various ages, and they can exhibit those behaviors; the "younger generation" certainly has not have that locked down; for those who are younger exhibit said behaviors, who did they get it from? ;)

As for your accomplishments anabellatx1, they are very commendable, but the OP was really not going down that path. No one can make you inferior without your consent (Eleanor Roosevelt) :)

Specializes in Pediatrics, Emergency, Trauma.
Thanks Lady. As always, you are the buffer of the situation. I mean that in a nice way. :) I hope the AN people eventually make you a guide.[/quote']

Aw, thanks Wish!

Specializes in Oncology; medical specialty website.

I don't really look at these articles as any sort of scholarly piece of writing. I think of them more as op-ed or blog posts. A topic like this would require research. That's why I take them with a grain of salt.