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If it is really bothering you say something about it. I doubt that nurse even remembers the comment at this point. Believe me there are things that are MUCH worse said to us often.
Right. It always bothers me when I do this sort of thing. Thing is, I don't want to apologize because I'm bothered (I am) but because she might be bothered (and probably isn't). But best to err on the side of caution. Good advice all.
I agree, if it is bothering you, the way you proposed the apology sounds really nice.Best of luck
If you're curious, here are other suggestions I received from reddit.
1) "Oh, by the way, I feel kinda bad because last time I was trying to make a joke but I think I hurt your feelings. Sorry if I made it awkward."
2) Give her a cookie, a ginger snap to be specific... because I snapped at her. [Cute, but too elaborate for my mostly nonverbal style.]
3) Write her a good review. [i like this. Never thought of it.]
4) Nominate her for a DAISY Award. [i read about it. It's for extraordinary care. Now that I know about it, there are some nurses from my past who've given extraordinary care. I might revisit this idea.]
So, I don't feel at a loss for options. I think I'll keep it simple and write a good evaluation.
francisarsenic
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I'm a dialysis patient. I see a nurse three time a week. I insulted her by accident with a stupid joke (told her she was interrupting my conversation with another patient). She seemed slightly miffed.
What is a concise apology that isn't self-serving?
I was thinking: I don't talk to you much, but I admire your kindness. And the other day, I was joking when I said you were interrupting me. It wasn't funny, and I did not mean to be abusive or mean-spirited.
Is that reasonable? Or am I making thinks worse by bringing it up again?
Any advice is appreciated. This will be my only post. I'm not trolling. And I'm asking you folks because (having been in healthcare) I know nurses get the brunt of irritable patients whereas the doctors get off without the confrontation.
Thanks.