Skip to content
View in the app

A better way to browse. Learn more.

allnurses

A full-screen app on your home screen with push notifications, badges and more.

To install this app on iOS and iPadOS
  1. Tap the Share icon in Safari
  2. Scroll the menu and tap Add to Home Screen.
  3. Tap Add in the top-right corner.
To install this app on Android
  1. Tap the 3-dot menu (⋮) in the top-right corner of the browser.
  2. Tap Add to Home screen or Install app.
  3. Confirm by tapping Install.
Discussion

I'm leaving LTC

I got a med/surg spot, evenings, LPN.

I'm excited. There's so much I need to learn and the VT scope of practice is wider than NYS's.

I'll miss a couple of my old folks, but, frankly, I'm tired of taking care of other people's dying, demented relatives. I'm tired of people smacking me and chasing transpondered elopers through the parking lot and standing behind a med cart for 8 hours a day.

And mostly I now know that I can not effect change in LTC except on the smallest, one-to-one level. That's important, obviously, but my spirit is being crushed. I have had a lousy year and being surrounded by people for whom the best outcome is death in their sleep isn't improving my depression.

Cross your fingers for me, all.

Featured Replies

  • Expert

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you, Sue. :saint:

I have been reading your refreshingly blunt posts for about a year and a half already, and I can surely sense that you have been having a rough run for your money in LTC. The backstabbing coworkers, insensitive management, poor leadership, abusive family members, and demanding patients can work much like a vacuum: if you allow it to go on too long, these people will suck the very last dripping soul out of you. They will try to break you down and rip your heart out. I know, because I have been in LTC for the past 1.5 years.

I wish you the very best of luck with your future endeavors in med-surg!

Hi Sue,

Sure wish you the best in your new adventure!!!

OklaLPN

I agree that they will suck your soul out of you. I have been in LTC for about 2 years as an LPN. I just finished school and can't wait to leave it. At work we always say treat the families not the patients...and medicate the staff, b/c in the end we will need it more :)

Sue, I left LTC in October of last year, went to med surg. As busy as it gets at times, it still feels almost like a vacation after working LTC all those years. Good luck, I think you will like it.

  • Author

Thank you all.

:)

I feel so relieved.

Woo hoo! Congrats to you. I have been guiltily reading your posts and nodding my head for a while. You've said several things that I've only allowed myself to think quietly! LTC is mostly depressing, but then occasionally heartwarming............ it's hard to give your all to a job that only occasionally seems worth it. Unless you're lucky to work with a group of "true believer" nurses, it does get demoralizing. I truly wish you the best. You seem like a good egg lost in the wrong setting!;)

  • Author
You've said several things that I've only allowed myself to think quietly!

Sometimes I say them aloud in the wrrrrooooong setting!

Best of luck to you! I can't wait to hear your observations since I enjoyed your honest assessments of working LTC. Congrats on the new job!

Well girlfriend, I think it will be a refreshing but challenging change. At least you are not going into medsurg as a brand new nurse, and that will help enormously.

You may run your butt off but you will learn a lot.

I did not realize that you were so close to the Vt boarder. Working in another state can be a little disorienting at first until you understand how they do things.

Pay attention to how they handle narcotics and how they waste them especially. It can be really different.

You said that scope of practice is expanded so you know that already.

I wish you the best of luck. I am sure that you will be better off once you get your bearings in that new setting.

  • Author
Pay attention to how they handle narcotics and how they waste them especially. It can be really different.

Everyone's more relaxed than NY. They haven't made me pee in a cup yet. Even Wal*Mart does that this side of the pond.

:)

I got a med/surg spot, evenings, LPN.

I'm excited. There's so much I need to learn and the VT scope of practice is wider than NYS's.

I'll miss a couple of my old folks, but, frankly, I'm tired of taking care of other people's dying, demented relatives. I'm tired of people smacking me and chasing transpondered elopers through the parking lot and standing behind a med cart for 8 hours a day.

And mostly I now know that I can not effect change in LTC except on the smallest, one-to-one level. That's important, obviously, but my spirit is being crushed. I have had a lousy year and being surrounded by people for whom the best outcome is death in their sleep isn't improving my depression.

Cross your fingers for me, all.

You lucky dog! I wish I could find a job in a hospital somewhere instead of LTC! I am tired of med carts and elopers and just plain bs! I too love my residents, but I am getting disheartened by the fact that I seem to be the only nurse who truly cares about them and their feelings and rights. I mean there are a couple of other nurses who I believe care a lot, but due to no one wanting to create more work for themselves, a lot of things seem to get pushed under the rug that I believe should be addressed for the resident's sake. My true love is ER or OR, and someday, when I graduate RN, I will work in one of those two spots, but for now, I guess I will keep fighting the battle for my residents.

  • Guides

Sue~

I wish you all the best in your new venture!! Hope it works out for you, and that your next employer treats you well. Med-surg is the hardest job you'll ever love, but if you do love it, you'll thrive........and best of all, you will learn.

Keep us posted, 'K?

Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.

Currently Reading 0

  • No registered users viewing this page.

Account

Navigation

Search

Search

Configure browser push notifications

Chrome (Android)
  1. Tap the lock icon next to the address bar.
  2. Tap Permissions → Notifications.
  3. Adjust your preference.
Chrome (Desktop)
  1. Click the padlock icon in the address bar.
  2. Select Site settings.
  3. Find Notifications and adjust your preference.