I have to vent - nearly expelled for 'inciting a riot'

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4 weeks ago, I missed a day of clinical. At my school, this is a 'critical incident' and requires a writeup and a meeting with a director. I knew it was coming, but because of snow and midterms, it got pushed off repeatedly.

Imagine my surprise when I am called in and there is not one, but two critical incident forms. The second one is in regards to "misuse of technology".

Let me explain some - I was a student advocate. Our graduation recently was changed to an event 14 weeks after our actual graduation, and it is 2 hours away and with 150 students that are not from our campus. People were livid, we would already be moving on to our BSNs or employed for 3 months by the time we got to "graduate", and now we had to graduate with strangers too?

I was bombarded by emails over this and so sent out an email to everyone begging them to direct their emails towards the administrators, instead of relying solely on a couple advocates to get it heard. When 60 people are upset, they need to know it is not a minor issue.

Well apparently - this is 'inflammatory' and 'inciting a riot'. So I have two critical incidents now, which is technically enough to expel me, although I am being allowed to stay in the program for now with the warning that one more mistake would remove me. I am only 17 weeks from completion.

What have I learned? To not stick my neck out for anyone else any more. I am no longer an advocate, and I will not be giving advice or hearing problems any further. I will stick to myself, focus on my work, and focus solely on getting to graduation without raising any flags. I am not a trouble maker - I am a 4.0 student who is in love with what she does. The only reason I am not removed so far is because I am a good student.

Worse, they pulled me out of class right before a test. So after I am shocked and in tears, I had to sit down and take a test 15 minutes late. :uhoh3:

Sorry for the raging. Needed to get it out today.

Some day you're going to LOVE telling people the story about how you incited a riot in your nursing school! It's going to be one of your top stories to share with new friends over the years.

My goals when I came to nursing school were to learn how to provide great care to patients, get good grades to make my hubby proud of me, and to get out of here unscathed and unnoticed! I agree with the poster who advised to keep your head low and your powder dry.

It sucks to be you... sorry!!! did you call in or just "no show"?

I was a no show and it was completely a stupid mistake - I rewrote my refridgerator calendar during midterms and wrote it in on the wrong days. But since this term we only have 4 days of clinical, even if I had called it would have been a critical incident - but I fully admit that one was totally on me, and I was expecting the CI form because of it.

Some day you're going to LOVE telling people the story about how you incited a riot in your nursing school!

HAHA! I hope so, because right now it just keeps me awake at night. I actually woke up at 230 and wrote a whole long letter in protest of it, including everything from how the administration did nothing about the email for four weeks to how my intentions were ignoerd; I have no intentions of sending it, as much as I'd like to. My head is down and I'm just doing what I can to escape with my grades and transcript fully intact.

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hey I no showed once... since i left my cell phone (only alarm that i used) at work, and since i was really tired, i ended up sleeping until 2 pm.

now I got "written up" but to be honest, it fell great to sleep in for once!!! that was the only clinical that I have ever missed and it was for a great cause sigh* my beauty rest!!! LOL

I joke with my instructor regarding this... at least I did not lie saying i was sick... i was just tired!

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I was given advice earlier in my im/sq post "stick to yourself, don't trust anyone else". Unbelievable and sad, but it seems true that in nursing school you should not stick your neck out or trust anyone. period.

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hey I no showed once... since i left my cell phone (only alarm that i used) at work, and since i was really tired, i ended up sleeping until 2 pm.

now I got "written up" but to be honest, it fell great to sleep in for once!!! that was the only clinical that I have ever missed and it was for a great cause sigh* my beauty rest!!! LOL

I joke with my instructor regarding this... at least I did not lie saying i was sick... i was just tired!

wow, you are very lucky. I missed one day, and had to sit out the entire semester, make up that 1 day the following semester without taking any other class, then continue on with the program the following semester.

I missed the day because I failed my math test, the teacher let me re=do the math test with 2 other students that failed, but I was taking 2 clinicals at the time because i was pregnant the semester before and could not go to psych clinical until my pregnancy was over.

they could of definitely let me make up that day the following semester with the following class.... but they didn't even after I begged the dean and my teacher to let me in the class.

my nursing school is not flexible at all.

I went in today to talk to the dean alone to see if there is a process to protest a critical incident. The more I think about it, the more I was infuriated that my intentions and my "side of the story" wasn't even asked; and that it took them 4 weeks to even let me know there was a problem.

Long story short, his exact words were "You cannot protest it. But you can get over it."

At the very least, he did assure me that a little mistake is not going to get me kicked out, so I can rest a little easier.

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wow, you are very lucky. I missed one day, and had to sit out the entire semester, make up that 1 day the following semester without taking any other class, then continue on with the program the following semester.

I missed the day because I failed my math test, the teacher let me re=do the math test with 2 other students that failed, but I was taking 2 clinicals at the time because i was pregnant the semester before and could not go to psych clinical until my pregnancy was over.

they could of definitely let me make up that day the following semester with the following class.... but they didn't even after I begged the dean and my teacher to let me in the class.

my nursing school is not flexible at all.

That really sucks, we are allotted a set number or days we can miss and make up each semester. I in fact took today off. We have a final on Monday and this week since it's the end of this class have clinicals 3x this week. Mine would have been tonight, tomorrow and friday. That would leave me with minimal study time and I have a very narrow margin to pass this class. My CI was awesome about it all and told us we all need a day off for mental health and to focus and said she would let the school know I was ill. If I pass the class I believe our make up days are set up for next week, if not well I will have to retake the whole class and clinicals anyway so doesn't much matter LOL.

I went in today to talk to the dean alone to see if there is a process to protest a critical incident. The more I think about it, the more I was infuriated that my intentions and my "side of the story" wasn't even asked; and that it took them 4 weeks to even let me know there was a problem.

Long story short, his exact words were "You cannot protest it. But you can get over it."

At the very least, he did assure me that a little mistake is not going to get me kicked out, so I can rest a little easier.

I would not rest easier if I were you.

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