I can't believe she went there!

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I recently asked someone close to me if she would be willing to watch my two kids while I go to Nursing school and she repied" OH NOW YOU WANT TO GO TO SCHOOL...NOW THAT YOU HAVE TWO KIDS AND A HUSBAND...DON'T YOU THINK THAT YOU SHOULD OF DONE THAT BEFORE HAND...WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO WITH YOUR HOME" I was so shell shocked...I couldn't even reply, and now that I think about it I wish I would have said something...:mad:

Specializes in Emergency,Tele,Peds,Home care.

I would just like to thank everyone for their comments and support, i was so upset when i wrote this and have a migraine now! It feels like everyone who was supposed to support me doesn't and now nursing school is just looking like a big blur! I will try to push ahead... But we will see!

Specializes in Anesthesia, CCU, ICU.

Looks like someone's sippin' on the HATERade ... lol. If you are ready and want to pursue a nursing degree, now's as good a time as any! Good luck.

Specializes in Med-Surg.

So... was that a no to watching your kids? lol!

You will be fantastic... there is no right and wrong way.. i wonder what she does for a living that makes her so chipper. :)

Specializes in Emergency,Tele,Peds,Home care.

Yeah it was totally a..yeah she never did answer the question..lol.. but I can't be bothered..ok I was I mean how do you not bother yourself ..if only you guys knew how close she was to me you would understand! I AM AFRAID, I MEAN WHO IS NOT AFRAID OF CHANGE!

After that comment I would not trust her to watch my children. In nursing school you cannot miss a beat, you don't want her to commit to watching your children, then one day not show up without warning leaving you to miss a day or two in nursing school because of her flakiness. Because of that comment, she may do that to you. I would find someone else who is more supportive and wants to see you succeed.

Specializes in Psych.
I recently asked someone close to me if she would be willing to watch my two kids while I go to Nursing school and she repied" OH NOW YOU WANT TO GO TO SCHOOL...NOW THAT YOU HAVE TWO KIDS AND A HUSBAND...DON'T YOU THINK THAT YOU SHOULD OF DONE THAT BEFORE HAND...WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO WITH YOUR HOME" I was so shell shocked...I couldn't even reply, and now that I think about it I wish I would have said something...:mad:

Were you talking to my mother-in-law?

Specializes in Emergency,Tele,Peds,Home care.
Were you talking to my mother-in-law?

omg..do I know you ..lol!:lol2:

Specializes in Emergency,Tele,Peds,Home care.

It really was hard to make a quick comeback because I'm always trying to keep the piece, if not for me but for the ones that I love...I just felt like this was one of those times that I should of stuck up for myself , but how do you do that when you are asking for a favor?

What a great friend! @@

Specializes in Psych.
omg..do I know you ..lol!:lol2:

Well im sure my SIL is not going to school for nursing and my other SIL doesnt have kids the age that need sitters :) I graduate in May and without the support of MY family would never have been able to do this. As mean as this sounds, unless I can have extra tickets for my pinning, I will not be inviting my inlaws. Im sure the wouldnt want to leave camp to come to it anyway @@. My hubby and kids get tickets, so does my mom and my sitter ( and dad if he is not working out of town) get first dibs, then my grandparents, and then maybe my inlaws. :)

Good luck with everything and Im sure that you will be able to find someone to help with the kids.

Specializes in PD,Nxstage,hemo.

She's totally jealous. Keep movng forward and keep your head up.

C.

Specializes in Critical Care, Emergency Medicine, Flight.
I recently asked someone close to me if she would be willing to watch my two kids while I go to Nursing school and she repied" OH NOW YOU WANT TO GO TO SCHOOL...NOW THAT YOU HAVE TWO KIDS AND A HUSBAND...DON'T YOU THINK THAT YOU SHOULD OF DONE THAT BEFORE HAND...WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO WITH YOUR HOME" I was so shell shocked...I couldn't even reply, and now that I think about it I wish I would have said something...:mad:

what a hater :(

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