Can someone please give me some helpful hints and maybe a peptalk?
I'm a new RN and I'm really struggling.
I never thought it would be this hard. I thought: I graduate, get my RN, get a job and everything will be great because I'm finally doing what I love.
A preceptor has really done a number on me.
I was on a busy and difficult unit where I had done a few other shifts with a tough but fair preceptor. On one of my last shifts my preceptor was floated to another unit and I was shifted to a nurse who had been very harsh and rude to me previously. She was relentless in making me feel inferior because I didn't have the same knowledge base as she did. Relentless questioning about things that a new grad wouldn't know, expectations for me to document things I didn't know how to do, and when I asked for help she would make things harder on me by continuing this behavior and raising the stakes each time, even yelling at me at one point. I was honestly trying my hardest.
Another RN(not a new grad just new to this hospital) pulled me aside and told me that it wasn't me, it was the preceptor and that the same things had happened to her. Then she told me try your hardest not to cry or show weakness because she'll only make things harder on you. I don't know how I would have made it without that nurse's peptalk.
I'm done on this unit, but that preceptor's comments have really stuck with me and I'm hurting because of it.
One of her comments was basically how she knew I'd fail on my home unit because I was so terrible on this one and that I'd probably kill someone.
I have no self confidence after 12 hours of absolute hell with this nurse. I don't even want to go back to that hospital. How do I get through this?
Most importantly, this isn't an old-school nurse. This is a nurse who is only a few years older than me. I can see a new cycle of being "broken-in" in her.