to go or not to go. That is the question.

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Hi everyone. A third time, I am attempting nursing school.- from the beginning. I am a sensitive person "in recovery". I don't mean that I took drugs or drank, but that my sensitivity has caused melt-downs on two attempts at nursing I. I am wiser now and am healing this sensitivity everyday with affirmations, biofeedback, neurofeedback and therapy. I thought I would strengthen myself and be ready to begin in the fall of 2014. I am applying to a program that requires chemistry as a prerequisite. So I figured that would buy me time to get functional. I have a 3.8 GPA and learn quickly. I just have to polish my stress management skillls. Some days it seems that I am doing the right thing and other days I panic and worry that perhaps this isn't the right thing. - returning. What if I have another failed attempt? I will be even more depressed. I don't know if I can tolerate it. Yet other days I am confident that I can swing it in all ways. My feelings about this big decision keep wavering. I am married with three children 23, 20 and 17. My age is 57. I am healthy, strong, energetic and fit. I wonder what anyone's take on this situation would be .

Thanks so much.

I think if you have a problem with stress management, you may want to re-evaluate your decision to go into nursing. Nursing school is stressful and the profession itself even more so. If you haven't resolved the issues that took you out of action the first two times, I don't see the point in trying a third time. I encourage to make sure you are in a good solid place before you decide whether or not to go back to school. Good luck!!

I think honestly you are the only one that knows what is best for you. I've told my instructors that they will have to drag me kicking and screaming out of the nursing program. This determination has kept me going. I think if you put your mind to it and take it one day at a time you can be successful this time! Good luck!

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I think if you have a problem with stress management you may want to re-evaluate your decision to go into nursing. Nursing school is stressful and the profession itself even more so. If you haven't resolved the issues that took you out of action the first two times, I don't see the point in trying a third time. I encourage to make sure you are in a good solid place before you decide whether or not to go back to school. Good luck!![/quote']

I tend to agree with this. Nursing school is an incredibly stressful experience, even for people who have dealt with stress in positive ways in their regular lives.

What exactly went on during your first two attempts at nursing school? What kind of things caused you to stress out? And how long ago was this?

Since then, what has led you to believe that you may be able to handle it now? Has your strength been tested in any way since your last experience in school?

The fact that you are already saying "what if" concerns me.

Hi I read an old post of yours whether you discussed possibly getting a nuero-psychological assessment? If you didn't receive one because your insurance wouldn't approve it I'd suggest finding a University that has a Post-BA psychology programs along with counseling center because usually the Psy-D students are allowed to do testing then they score the test and discuss results with an actual Clinical psychologist and/or Neurologist. Because it's done primarily by students it will be a lot cheaper than going to a psychologist or his/her intern. For me in Socal the psychologist fee was 2500. His intern's fee 1500. At the University I chose there was a 50 dollar intake assessment fee and my testing was done in 3 hour intervals with the last one being 4 hours(an extra test recommend by the neurologist) it was 25 and hour based on income. So I did 13 1/2 hours of test which =337.50 I also have to pay for the scoring of the test which is being done then the report can be released to my university and proper recommendations will be made. I'm hoping the total of the test comes under 700 either way it was cheaper. The down side is the test takes longer than it would with a psychologist because they can get all the test done in a few hours the score them, give recommendations ect. I'm working with two PSYD students who have to administer a few test at a time score the results with their superiors then continue the test plus factor in school breaks, and class schedules,plus work for me...it took awhile but for a lower cost it usually takes more time. I hope this helps for me I'm being tested for a learning disability (ADD) but it can tell you more than that of course they were very through asking about family history. What types of teachers classes I thrived in, schoolwork/test anxiety ect. Good luck hopes this helps sorry I can't post privately.

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