I think I'm getting kicked out of my program ... help

[mariawong]

Hello guys ive been posting a lot here and is good to see how everyone supports each other and dont judge you or attack you . im writing this with tears in my eyes because i might be getting kicked out of the program for failing my AP 2 class twice , today was my final and even doe i studied for almost 3 weeks straight no going out , no family gatherings missed my bday , no dating, no social media went to all the tutorings , i failed . I feel like my life is ending and i'm sorry for the drama but i feel like im not good enough , i dont have anyone to talk to because my friends tend to be a little judgmental and they will tell me to quit . several of my classmates failed and they dont care but i do , some suggested going to a different school. so right after my exam i met with the dean and she told me to write a appeal letter to let me do it again meaning if it gets approved i will be 3000 times more stressed about it because is my final attempt to this , she also told me she might help me to add concepts 1 so i don't stay behind . but it might be too much for me ... i think i can handle it but right now i don't know what is going to happen , i just cant stop crying and i wish my parents were alive to have someone to guide me and at least just tell me that everything is going to be ok .

[caliotter3]

Awful disrespectful uncompassionate comment caliotter3 and Mariewong.

Reality bites. It takes a lot for me to comment about the ongoing tone of an OP's thread. Coddling is not going to get this person going in the right direction. Since mariawong thanked me for the post, and she is the OP, I'll take my cue from her that the post was taken as it was meant. On the other hand, criticizing a person who posts by calling them out by name, is disrespectful. Disrespectful to me. If you want to criticize someone, be respectful and speak to them by PM or report their post, using the report function.

[FutureNurseStone]

I disagree humiliating someone in the way you have above is called bullying. If you can post something like that on a public forum you deserved to be called out in the same manner. I'll leave you with that as i agree to emphatically disagree with your methods.

[Rose_Queen, BSN, MSN, RN]

I disagree humiliating someone in the way you have above is called bullying. If you can post something like that on a public forum you deserved to be called out in the same manner. I'll leave you with that as i agree to emphatically disagree with your methods.

How is it humiliating or bullying? Just because you disagree with the sound advice given does not make it humiliating or bullying.

[FutureNurseStone]

I agree to disagree. Have a great day!!!

[caliotter3]

Hope the proper amount of attention has been directed to the attention seeker. Scream "bully" when one doesn't like what needed to be said.

[MiladyMalarkey, ASN, BSN]

Did I read correct that your semesters are only 3 months long? Maybe that is the problem. Perhaps you're getting too much content too fast & maybe transitioning to a school with the more traditional 4-4 1/2 month semesters would help. Something to consider.

Is this a community college, are you already in nursing school or are you in the process of completing your pre-reqs?

[Wlaurie, RN]

Need to change up what you're doing bc what you are doing now isn't working. My advice is find out if school offers tutoring and then pick someone out who is doing really well and see if you can be study buddies. Then set aside time every day to review and study on your own.

[mariawong]

Is this a community college, are you already in nursing school or are you in the process of completing your pre-reqs?

yes it isn't only 3 months it is not a community college is a private school , my study methods are excellent i have A in all my prerequisites , that's what i'm doing now , that's why i'm really upset that i'm not passing the last class before i can start my core classes and now they are taking me out of the program , i eat sleep eat and breathe nursing school . that's why i got depressed . i'm looking into the community college here to continue :)

[nalie2, ADN, BSN, MSN, RN, NP]

I'm really sorry to hear about the situation you are in. I think it is okay to be sad about it, but you have to pick yourself up and try again. It sounds like you are very willing to do so, that is great! I would start with talking to your instructor. Look at your exams and figure out where you went wrong if they allow you to look at them. Have you tried looking at you tube videos? Maybe you need to try different learning methods. Also, I believe that if you truly KNOW the content, you will be able to teach someone the content. I "teach" my boyfriend about mechanisms and explain how they work. That's when I know I truly understand it. Try teaching someone, or even yourself.