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I love to hear people vent about work situations. When I am at school I can act like everything is wonderful, but when I get home I vent. Don't feel guilty for your feelings we have all had the same feelings with coworkers. That is one of the wonderful thing about this BB. Hang in there!
You've got that right Belinda and after many years in this profession, I'll never ever figure out why that is and I've stopped trying. At my place of employment there have been a few that have actually gotten away with murder! These people should have lost their licenses over some of the things they have done, but they are still there getting away with anything they can.
We're taking up a collection for a person who is being terminated as of next Friday because she was caught sleeping 3x. She put herself in her own hot water and she was warned and suspended and yet she still fell asleep anyway, but she is a nice person and did her work when she was awake...just couldn't stay awake from say 2am to 5am no matter what. She has three kids and no job now so we thought a collection would help her out some. So I go down stairs to give the collecting person my money, and not one staff member was awake and alert...all were comatose! Asked the supervisor when she made rounds, "How'd ya like your comatose staff downstairs??? And she replied, " Well I was shuffeling papers around and got no response." And yet she did nothing about these people who do this night after night and are getting away with it! They see it and let it go all the time. I felt it ironic that these "comatosers" are the people who are taking up a collection for someone who is being fired for sleeping on the job...but the residents are the ones who are being neglected most of all. The sleepers should all be fired on the spot, no ifs ands or buts!!! But they never will be fired UNTIL something bad happens and then they'll fry their own azzes...
"don't flame me ...and please no flaming,"
It may well be that this kind of attitude is more than a small part of the problem. Since you are a permanent charge nurse, I would strongly recommend that you take some management and supervision courses, since your facility doesn't appear to have given you any such training. (This is the number one problem in the nursing field, IMHO.)
Reading "Managing for Dummies," might be a good start.
You might also wish to check out this thread: https://allnurses.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33388
Best wishes.
Gosh I am sooo glad I am not the only other nurse that feels this way towards another co-worker. I know we are supposed to stick together, but sometimes the bad apples spoil a bunch:)
I am a permanent charge as is this other nurse and we are required to take all the mgmnt and supervision classess, etc...This chick just doesn't give a shyt!
Nights is a world unto itself. I love it and will hate to leave it whenever I can find a 8-5 position at my place of employment.
(Oh wait a minute...guess that means I will always be nights:):) HE HE HE...only dayers get those positions:)
Thanks a bunch guys!
altomga, ADN, BSN, MSN, DNP, RN, APRN
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does anyone else work with a nurse that just grate's your nerves?? there is this one nurse that i really can't stand to be around for too long! she has only been a rn for @ 1yr (it took her 3x to pass the boards) now don't flame me i realize some people have test anxiety, but i am positive that getting totally wasted the night before one test did not help. anyway, she acts all high and mighty, extremely unprofessional also. i reminded her this morning before i left to make sure all staff adhered to the rules (strictly) because jcaho is surveying us right now. she responds, who cares, i'm not going to make anyone do anything, i don't care>>>>what's up with that? she acts like she knows soooooo much more than those who have been in nursing for years.
she just makes me so madddddd!!!
oh, but of course when i do follow up on the bad things that any of us would report i get brushed off!! it was i who must have misunderstood the situation or i just didn't hear what i thought i heard. on my floor it seems that dayshift can do no wrong. night shift gets the short end of the stick.
can we say industrial size ky!!! or as us nighters like to say...just give it to my dry!
okay, i know i am ranting and raving...sorry, but you guys listen. i am not the only one that feels this way at work though at least.
(and please no flaming, i wasn't directing my comments about dayshift or other remarks to anyone but this particular nurse and floor)
ggggrrrrrrrrrr:(
sorry guys!