Nurses General Nursing
Published Aug 29, 2006
How do you all deal with snide, sarcastic comments made by family members?
Marie_LPN, RN, LPN, RN
12,126 Posts
The grandchildren are always making sarcastic comments to me such as, "It's so nice to see you; I thought you wouldn't come back.
I would try therapeutic communication techniques. "You are saying that you thought i wouldn't come back. Is there anything you would like to talk about?"
TheCommuter, BSN, RN
102 Articles; 27,612 Posts
Thanks to all of you for the aforementioned suggestions.
SueBee RN-BSN
232 Posts
I try to clarify what they meant. Usually when confronted "what did you mean by........" they say "oh nothing, nevermind". Sometimes however, you can get to the bottom of some frustration or anger that is masked as sarcasim. If it's really uncalled for sometimes I don't give the the power to bother me and I pretend I didn't hear them and ignore them completely.
If it's really uncalled for sometimes I don't give the the power to bother me and I pretend I didn't hear them and ignore them completely.
Your right to get to the bottom of the comments. As a nurse we are dealing with the whole family, and it's best if the experience is as good as can be for the patient and family. Once we find out what is bothering them, we can fix the problem. However, there are some families who are just abusive. Ignoring their behavior will cause it to esculate. When I've had patients like this in the past, I've made a big production out of it. I call in other nurses, and the nurse manager, sometimes the MD. This way your covered, and they get all the attention they are really asking for.
ktwlpn, LPN
3,844 Posts
Consider that before they were surgical nurses, they had clinicals in nursing school in various depts. And perhaps they worked on the floor before getting into surgery, so maybe they knew/know the demends of a floor nurse. And in surgery, not all of the pts. are "zonked out."Maybe the family members aren't understanding of the OP's side of things, but the above quoted rationale for it is very uninformed (not to mention dismissive).
Maybe the family members aren't understanding of the OP's side of things, but the above quoted rationale for it is very uninformed (not to mention dismissive).
ortess1971
528 Posts