I was fired today

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I have been working for an agency as a home health aide supervisor.

Yesterday a memo was placed anonymously on my desk, detailing concerns of staff who are organizing a union. One of their concerens is that the staff have been intimidated into falsifying time sheets for the Mediciad program, and other programs. This memo had apparently been faxed to the board of directors of the agency.

Now, I ask you, if such a memo crossed your desk, would you not express concern over being asked to open new cases? Especially when you have given your resignation, effective at the end of this week?

I was asked to detail all the issues I have been working on, then asked to open 2 new cases. I informed my director that I knew about the memo, and I had reservations about opening any new cases until the issues are resolved.

She asked me to wait until she got back, about 5 minutes or so she said, before I left for the field. Next thing I know, the exec director and my dept director come into my office, and the ex dir says, "If you are not able to do the job you were hired to do, you 'may as well pack it up' and leave now." I turned and looked her right in the eye and said, "That would be just fine with me." Then they watched me get my things, I guess so I wouldn't take anything from the office, like I am the CRIMINAL, and asked me for the key, access card to the building, and the pager. Which I gladly turned over. Unfortunately, my travel charts were home, the one and ONLY time I ever forgot them there, probably b/c my nerves have been so FRAZZLED by everything going down there the last few weeks, SO TENSE. So, I had to drive home, get that and drive them back. When I got back, I noticed a sign annoucing an emergency staff meeting, I guess so they can announce my leaving, among other things they want to finally acknowledge so they can cover their butts!

I am actually relieved. Going into that office every day in the last few weeks, since I shared my concerns with them about what I had heard, has just been unbearable.

The home health aides have been calling me all day since I called one (it only takes one!) to tell them what happened. They said the patients all want to write letters to make them give me my job make. How innocent they are! I advised them that please, I appreciate their kindness, but I just cannot work in that environment any longer. I will miss the aides. They are an extremely hard-working group of women, who have taken a lot from this employer. They are organizing a union. They told my situation to their union rep, and he called me too. All this in the space of three hours.

My head is POUNDING, my phones are now off the hook, and I am cracking open the bottle I just got from the liquor store. The aides wanted me to go to their union meeting at 4:30, and I had planned on it, just to show my support for them, but I need to drink MORE, so I called them and said I can't come, cause I can't drive after I drink, and I plan to have at least 2 glasses in by 4!! LOL!

I have notes for the last 6 weeks, everything is written down. I will mail them to myself after I show my husband some of the info I have this evening. My kids are shocked. My dtr said NO mom, they did NOT fire you, you quit and they just got mad and made you leave sooner. Gotta love her spirit!

Peace out!

Tanta mierda! (So much shyt!).... Linda, I got your email this AM just before flying out the door to work. I"m sorry it ended up this way, esp. when you had such hopes!

Alcohol and endorphins, with a hot bubble bath and mani-pedicure chaser will cure most ills!

I'm glad you have a f/t job lined up and that it'll be no problem to just slide right in... But this really sx! I'll pray that you're able to stay ahead of the vultures and that things work out well for you...

Keep us posted!

Kat

Specializes in Home Health.

Thanks everyone. Today, despite the gloom outside of my window, looks bright. I feel lke I have cut the string to a big balloon and I am watching it go way up into the sky until it becomes a little dot and then disappears. I guess that is a weird way to describe it, but as each hour passes, that "balloon" gets smaller and smaller. I hope it does disappear, but not sure it will if investigations open up. I'll just deal with that as it comes.

Hey nicola, is that what Speedy Gonzales would say. I make it a point to learn all the bad words and expressions in every language ya know! ;) In my area we have a very high Polish, Russian, Ukranian immigration, and my son has learned some lovely expressions in those languages. This is what boys share on the bus to school. What an education. Funny, I don't know where he gets it from! :D

Hi hoolahan,

the only thing I can say is: ENJOY!!

Take care, Renee

Specializes in Community Health Nurse.

Hoolahan,

Cyberhugs to ya!;) Remember: When one door closes, another always opens up, and there is always sunshine after the rain! I'm saying a little prayer for you so when you wake up in the morning that booze isn't going to make you go "Ugh! What have I done to myself!" ;) Keep the emesis basin next to your bed just in case. ;)

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The Three Rules of Work by Albert Einstein:

1. Out of clutter, find simplicity!

2. From discord, find harmony!

3. In the middle of difficulty, lies opportunity!

GO GET 'EM HOOLAHAN! :)

Specializes in ER.

Congratulations on getting out of there, and on your extra week off. You deserve it- and take that severance pay- you earned every penny. Hope you are sucessful in your follow up on that situation however far you choose to go.

It was their loss.

I'm sorry and/or congratulations! ;)

Bottoms up! :D

Here's something bad in Greek (I don't exactly have Greek letters here, so I'll just spell it how it sounds...)

EEsay malAka (you're a dumba**!)

hehehe :cool:

Congratulations on standing up for what's right! New job-new day. Here's a quote from one of my favorite songwriter/performers:

"just when you think that you've been gypped, the bearded lady comes and does a double back flip!"

Any trauma will take time to heal. Get a full body massage. Go away for the weekend. Be good to yourself-you deserve it. Keep us posted.

Specializes in Obstetrics, perioperative, Infection Con.

Congatulations and cheers!

The best ever has happened to you, you are out of there before the you know what is going to hit the fan. Best of all, you have a back up plan, so you don't have to worry how you are going to pay the bills.

Just make sure you keep your records, so if there is ever legal action taken against the agency, you have something to fall back on, our memories tend to fail us after a while. The best thing you can do for yourself, is to write everything you know for a fact (no speculations) down, place it in a closed envelope and mail it to yourself. When it arrives in the mail, don't open the envelope just save it for future reference. The postal date mark will serve as evidence that you wrote the document when you said you did. If things ever go to court you will have the back up of your own recollections when you need them (lawyers love you for doing this).

I sincerely hope you will never need it, but you never know!

;)

Specializes in Home Health.

Already doing OT on Sunday! At least it will make up for the severance pay I declined. I don't want their dirty money!!

Feels good to be back at the VNA FT. Everyone gets along, and everyone works....hard. We're all on the same page.

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