What do you experienced nurse's do when a patient or family member is insisting that you call the doctor in the middle of the night for something that could wait until morning. Of course, they see it as important, and it may be, but just something that can wait. (for example...med questions, or ordering a med that they take in the am but did not get ordered yet) The family and patient are looking at you like you are a bad person because you do not want to call. How do you handle this, what do you say? Our facility has very relaxed visiting hours and this seems to happen a lot. A family member will show up in the middle of the night and want answers NOW!!!!