am I wrong? - page 2

This is going to be a "longey", so I apologize in advance. I have lots to say. This is in chronological order. I should tell you up-front, that all of these occurences, other than 2, have occured "in... Read More

  1. by   baseline
    Don't go. I would never have been able to endure all of that. My goodness! DON"T GO!!!!!
  2. by   RRMLPN
    don't go.. what a horrible , horrible woman.
  3. by   2banurse
    I totally agree with the other posts. Diva especially had a good suggestion to have your own private celebration.

  4. by   maggie7
    Agree with everyone above. You've put up with way more than I could. I would have been outta there. You have a right to do exacty what you want to do concering the party. If you don't want to go then don't and don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. In fact, after what this person has put you through, I would never let anyone make you feel bad again. And, I have seen it more than a few time. What goes around comes around.
  5. by   SmilingBluEyes
    You would be a hypocrite to go. Go out instead, by yourself a nice outfit or something at Bath and Body Shop and indulge yourself in celebration that miserable excuse for a person will be on her way. You are in the RIGHT and you KNOW it.
    Im floored with one your stamina for not setting that heffer on fire with a bic lighter and a portable o2 tank in the linen closet.
    Dont go to that womans anything other than funeral and then it should be for you to whisper in her ear what a wicked woman she was and she deserves the life that she has had, and may it contiue in hell. You must be the most patient woman in the world I would have already jammed a fork in that womans head.... just for the most shallow type of sanity. Please dont go,, tell me when and where it is and I will go for you just so you can have one more day of added peace in your life. I just cant imagine having that much education behind me and tollerating that crap... Im working on furthering my education but Im sorry as a RN , I dont tollerate crap from anyone. I do hope your walk to the greener pastures is so much better...
  7. by   Y2KRN
    I say have a party on the 9th and label it " Ding Dong the Witch is Dead" party!!!!!!!!! She doesn't sound as though she even deserves as much as a good riddens!!!

  8. by   Hooligan
    I say GO!

    And insist on giving her a farewell speech! Be sure to elucidate on how much of an impact this woman had in your life and let her know just how much you care! What a horrid ******!!!!

    Seriously though...your feelings are completely valid! I just don't know how you stayed and put up with all that crap!! God Bless You!

  9. by   JudithL_in_NH
    I'm so sorry for the personal losses you've suffered, and also all you've had to put up with at this woman's hands.

    I'd be torn between two options:

    Not going and erasing that woman from my mind, or

    Going, and eating, drinking, laughing my head off with my friends, REALLY CELEBRATING at this party, and making it really clear I was thrilled to see her go!

    You need to choose what's best for you and your state of mind--no point in going if it'll just be another opportunity for her to upset you. And I think it's rude of co-workers to suggest you should go, with your history with this witch!
  10. by   MomNRN
    Don't go! She doesn't deserve to be in the same room as you! On her last day of work, at the last hour, you need to have a CD playing that "Hallelujah" song, over and over!
  11. by   louloubell1
    Not only do I think you were treated horribly by your nurse manager, I also am appalled that your coworkers would try to make you feel bad because you do not wish to celebrate this ogre. I wouldn't want to go either, & I think you've displayed far more cooth & tact than I would ever be able to muster in such horrible circumstances. I am so sorry to hear about all that you've been through, and I hope that the resignation of this burden of a woman will help to make things more pleasant for you.

    Be blessed!
    Convicted of placenta previa & serving time on couch arrest ~ Day 24
  12. by   KaroSnowQueen
    Don't go. I would have strangled her years ago.
  13. by   hapeewendy
    ppl like that will get what is coming to them
    okay so I sound more spiteful then I mean to , or maybe not, I dont know, this woman is wicked...

    I wouldnt go, I would go out with ppl who love me and who I love being around, get all dressed up, go to a nice place, and have a toast in her name "I would like to raise my glass in honor of ______
    my world will be a much happier place without you in it"
    seriously though , she is a nasty pooor excuse for a human being , and although I dont know her enough to say that, the lack of common decency she shows her fellow humanbeings is enough to convince me...
    kudos to you for being the way you are about this whole thing .. I admire you