I know this is a controversial subject but I'm not looking to stir up a debate. There are several threads on flu shots but I couldn't find one that quite addressed my concern, so I apologize in advance. I always try to look at vaccine debates objectively, and of course risk vs benefit.
I have always had flu shots without problems. My husband is 37 years old and has never had the flu, and has never had a flu shot. Interestingly he has never had a cold, (maybe once as a small child which he wouldn't remember). He flies 2x/per week for work, and still rarely ever gets sick. Every other time I fly, I get sick.
I am 17 weeks pregnant, first child, and I believe he should get the flu shot to protect me and our child when she arrives in March. I also believe he should get flu shots every year in the future because we will have young kid(s). He is not opposed to it, he is just asking hard but fair questions.
Why do I need it if I've never had the flu? I have a strong immune system (this is true) and it doesn't guarantee I won't get the flu, it only protects against a few strains. Yes, but it will minimize symptoms if you get a different strain. Also as we age our immune systems weaken. Is this enough though?
Of course he has good points, but I fear with Murphy's law he'll get the shot on my request and then also get the flu later this winter. I'm also nervous to introduce the flu shot to his system never having had it before. Any flu shot "experts" out there? I want to feel 100% comfortable asking him to do this :-) Of course, it's his decision, but he wants to do what's best for our family. Thanks!
