Feeling like a Loser * Dropped all my classes this semester *

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I'm still doing my prerequisites to get into UTA's Fast Track BSN program. The beginning of the semester I was feeling really unfocused and eventually it took a toll. I started with 3 classes and now I'm not in any. I feel like I have wasted my financial aid and my student loan. I was wondering if anyone has done the same or been in a similar situation and any advice they can give me for next semester. I really want to finish school. I've been in college for 5 years ( on and off and changed my major 4 times). I'm just ready to start my career.

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I'm currently in a similar boat. I had 2 years left in a wonderful BSN program and had to drop school and move back home because I had given up trying to manage my major depression. After moving back I immediately enrolled myself in classes at a local community college, all of which I've had to drop aside of one that I'm probably going to drop, too. Several people did tell me "maybe you should take a break," and I ignored that advice. I've lived with major depression since early childhood but it does get more and more complicated as life does.

I know there are plenty of people that have overcome having to leave nursing or medical school and then returning, succeeding, blah blah. I've searched for posts all over but I don't think anything will satisfy you quite like accomplishments, big or small, of your own. It's awesome that you're working as a CNA... that's experience! I thought I could just take a test with 2years nursing school knowledge but the requirements here involve completion of a CNA program, all $1,000 + (at least all the programs I've found this semester in my area and within a 3-hr radius).

I got really overwhelmed. It drove me over the edge and I hated myself for it because I took college classes along with high school enrollment, where was the anxiety and inability to do daily activities then? I'm trying to reframe and stop the negative thoughts. Something interesting is that in my current class my peers have all completed a degree that has nothing to do with nursing, or are redoing prerequisites like English, micro, etc that they've failed before even eligible to apply to a nursing track. At first I really thought I was in a class of all new college students, but nope, they just carry themselves with enthusiasm and perseverance. Just keep going and don't blame yourself, don't hang the past over your shoulders. Your girlfriend is a major source of support, I wish I listened to my boyfriend more when he told me everything would be okay. I wish you well, it's never too late and your passion will come in handy! Talk to me anytime.

You never gave up! Such an inspiration! Depression is no joke. Its not something you can easily put to the side. I have days where I try to find the joy in life and just going through the motions. I'm soo hapoy to hear that you're continuing to be a nurse. I hope everything works out for you. Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone.

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Specializes in Nurse's Aide.

Your situation mirrors mine exactly, it's almost creepy lol. I've done that too with starting the semester off unfocused and not ready at all about 2 years ago, and ended up failing 1 and withdrawing the other 2 classes.it was a horrible feeling and time for me. The main reason was being in a funk mentally and needing time away from college altogether.

You may be in the same boat, too. Maybe you need a counselor at school or assess yourself on how you're feeling mentally/emotionally. Don't give up.

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You should look into seeing your schools counselor. They are supposed to help navigate your way to being a successful student

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Specializes in Ambulatory care.

take the semester or year off, get your head straight meaning sort out your issues, save some money, have an action plan, if dealing with depression get treatment for it. Good luck best wishes.

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Specializes in Critical Care, Med-Surg, Psych, Geri, LTC, Tele,.

I dropped my prereqs several times. I started the path to become an RN 6 yrs ago next month. [emoji3] I was in a bad marriage and also, unbeknownst to me, was suffering from depression and PTSD.

I may have taken off a semester here and there, but I always reconsidered my goals and always decided to continue the path to become an RN.

I ended up going the long route: withdrew once d/t a poor grade and then I wasn't able to get into the classes I needed the following term. I ended up having conversations with nurses I knew IRL who assured me that getting into nursing school had been arduous for them, but had proven to be a worthwhile career.

Another term, I dropped my classes to look for a job and ended up becoming a CNA.

Dropped classes again a different term when I was offered a chance to attend LVN/LPN school. Always jumped right back in the following term.

And now, I'm 6 calendar months from earning my RN!

Therefore, my advice to you is to just keep on keeping on! You're not a loser! You can do it!

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take the semester or year off, get your head straight meaning sort out your issues, save some money, have an action plan, if dealing with depression get treatment for it. Good luck best wishes.

Thank you. I plan to get help with it as soon as I have the resources

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You should look into seeing your schools counselor. They are supposed to help navigate your way to being a successful student

Thanks for the advice. I plan to check that out too.

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I dropped my prereqs several times. I started the path to become an RN 6 yrs ago next month. [emoji3] I was in a bad marriage and also, unbeknownst to me, was suffering from depression and PTSD.

I may have taken off a semester here and there, but I always reconsidered my goals and always decided to continue the path to become an RN.

I ended up going the long route: withdrew once d/t a poor grade and then I wasn't able to get into the classes I needed the following term. I ended up having conversations with nurses I knew IRL who assured me that getting into nursing school had been arduous for them, but had proven to be a worthwhile career.

Another term, I dropped my classes to look for a job and ended up becoming a CNA.

Dropped classes again a different term when I was offered a chance to attend LVN/LPN school. Always jumped right back in the following term.

And now, I'm 6 calendar months from earning my RN!

Therefore, my advice to you is to just keep on keeping on! You're not a loser! You can do it!

Thank you for sharing your story. Gives me hope. I plan not to give up. I know Im just going through a storm right now and eventually get back in track. To know others have gone through the same and have reached their goal, gives me that push.

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