Failing math despite all efforts!

[niknaknurse]

Help! I am currently getting through my pre req's in order to move on to acceptance into a nursing program. I am 39, returning to school after earning 2 different vocational licences- massage therapist and esthetician. I am a stellar student and have all A's in every subject with the exception of math. Specifically Algebra. I have a 40% and CANNOT understand it at all. I pay for 3 different tutors and use every available online tool for math help. I just can't seem to get it and it's really lowering my self esteem and confidence. My brain is not wired for this type of math. I will be an incredible nurse and it's been my dream for so many years. I have always thought I wouldn't be smart enough, have enough time, etc. But I cannot let my dream die just because I keep failing math. I study and practice but no matter how much I try, it's the ONLY thing keeping from reaching my goal. What do I do?

[bjwojcik]

Are you having trouble with Algebra 1? I took a look at the Khan Academy site and they have a good section on Algebra 1. I wish I could sit down with you.

-Brad

[Have Nurse, ADN, RN]

I understand. I suffered terrible math anxiety after my algebra instructor dropped dead a week into school. (That was many years ago.)

I took a math refresher course and Elementary Algebra to get over it. You can do this, but just don't rush it. Increased anxiety inhibits you from learning. You won't absorb it as well.

So check out either an online course, or perhaps sign up at a local Jr. college. It doesn't have to be fancy. Just do it.

[misspy]

Math is tough. Don't lose confidence i failed basic math and algebra a few times, but when i passed because i stayed on top of my work and went to tutoring I loved it. But i definitely made a stellar decision when i tried to take college algebra over the summer. --I'm pretty sure everyone failed that class in real life...it was nothing like tge basic algebra i had took. Some professors know that algebra could be a pain but you have to just really give it all your time. I remember going to tutoring everyday and constantly doing my homework, practicing basic algebra on mathmastering. Wouldn't be thrilled to do that algebra thing again ill say that.

[SavedNurse]

If your college has a disability services center, you may be able to get tested. There are learning disabilities possible with math (dyscalculia/math dyslexia) and if you are having such consistent difficulties even with the extra help of tutors the test results may offer some insight into how to allow you to learn. Honestly, I squeaked by all the Algebra requirements and fulfilled Statistics (much much much easier) by the skin of my teeth, but the additional time and help allowed it to happen. Do not get discouraged, you will get through this.

[bitter_betsy, BSN]

Can you be more specific as to why you aren't understanding? It would also be helpful to know what type of learner you are (do you learn by listening, writing, seeing, doing???)

Maybe we can offer you suggestions to take back to your tutors based upon someone who has/had the same issue.

Remember - Algebra is not Math - its more like English. You have to learn to read it. If your tutors are only teaching you how to do particular problems - you will probably not learn. Someone needs to sit with you and teach you to read algebra. Once you understand how to read it, then you can begin to learn how to implement it and start understanding problems.

You are completely capable of doing this!! You just need someone capable of understanding HOW you learn, and then teaching you appropriately. Don't give up.

[tickledlemur]

Have you tried the "For Dummies" or "Made Incredibly Easy" series?? I really struggled with math and chemistry and these personally worked to make things 'click' for me.

[ashley_bird]

First off, there is no such thing as your brain is not capable; your brain is capable of anything. You have to start saying that you are good at math and you have to believe in yourself. You just need to find that thing that makes it read to you. You have to break down what makes you so strong in other subjects, what makes you successful in them, and apply that to math. Do not approach math differently than you do your other subjects. I struggled with math my whole educational career because I looked at it as this monster. It is NOT a monster; you can tackle this thing. Make sure your tutors are teaching you in the ways that register to you. For me, I am very creative and imaginative, so I like making silly metaphors and songs or putting a story to the math problem. I enjoy taking detailed notes on why an equation plays out the way it does. I never let anyone think it is acceptable to tell me "well this happens because it just does" No! You give me an explanation on why it does because that how how my brain will hold on to that information; that is how my brain will make sense of it. If you have not done so already, find what makes sense to your brain. Do not let the numbers make you think this a different ball game, it is not. We, who are not good at math, make it even more challenging by thinking we have no other way; which is not true. You got this!