Failed last semester and it hurts

[HopefulRNtay]

Just found out I Failed my last semester by a point and a half. I ran out of time and was unable to do the last 4 math questions on the final, if I had gotten those done I would have passed.. I've failed a course before (also by a point), which you can only do once in this program..so I'd have to start all over now. I really can't see myself repeating the entire program as it has been horrible for my anxiety/panic disorder and it's taken time from my child. I have a meeting to review the test. I am so upset and can't stop crying, this has been my dream and I was so close to graduation. I feel like a failure, my son was rooting for me, my family has poured money into this for me and I feel like I've let them down. I LOVE Nursing and would hate to have put in 2 years of hard work for nothing. I want to do everything I can before giving up on this.

What are my options to fight for this grade?

If I don't have any, where do I go from here?

[Rionoir, ADN, RN]

Are you able to at least sit for your LPN? I'm a little unclear what level you are, but I know where I am we can test for our LPN after level 2. If you got that then you'd only need to retake a year to get an ADN.

[amynye]

Oh stop your sniveling and wipe your nose. I can hear you crying from here...

You're right, there are no words......You asked, and you received. Sometimes things just don't work out. Not the end of the world, just gonna require some extra work on your part, if you've got it inside you, and right now, you're just another one of those whiners who wants to be catered to. You're blaming the same rules you agreed to follow in order to take the test in the first place.

Now because some here are not petting you on the head and are not all "there, there little one, what terrible test people they are to not just , ohhh, give you an extra what? Hour or two, maybe just give you the test answers to begin with so you won't be inconvenienced in the first place. After all apparently you're the only one who has had child care issues, has had things happen in life, didn't have enough time to finish, struggled with math, yada yada, yadayadayada.

As far as you jumping to conclusions just because you didn't like what you heard, how closed-minded and judgemental....if you get this upset just from experienced professionals feedback, you (and eventually your patients, colleagues,etc.) are really gonna suffer in the real nursing world. School is the easy part, lots of chances for do-overs that you won't get out in the real nursing world. You're a mess, adjust the attitude.

I hope to God if I or a loved one is sick that they never get a nurse like you (and that doesn't seem too likely to happen). Do you always assume those who don't agree and cater to you are mean and uncaring? Disquise getting your way with seeking "support and advise from compassionate nurses and students"? And anyone who sees through that, you tell them they are wrong so you don't have to deal with that?

I truly hope you learn some compassion. Someone who is willing to ask for help when needed and wants another chance is not weak or "a mess". Empathy is being able to walk a mile in someone else's shoes without being cruel or judgemental. This isn't appropriate and I hope whatever demon's "Pony Mom' is dealing with - she comes to terms with them before providing care for patients. I'd rather have a kind nurse who had to repeat a block of nursing school than a cynical cruel one that passed all semesters.

[Bowtiegirl]

I say contest every possible question. Then bow out gracefully if nothing improves. Put on a smile be pleasant and tell your instructor that you will be back as soon as possible. But definitely don't quit! I failed my last semester and it was demoralizing! Just square those shoulders, put this semester behind you and start again with a positive attitude! You can do this! Try to be a positive role model for others and you will start feeling better!

[Apple-Core, ASN, BSN, RN]

I did have a thought - is it possible for you to move to a different area or even state? I know that's asking a lot, but it would at least give you a fresh start!

[rntonp1day]

First, avoid all the negativity. I think some have either forgotten how hard nursing school is or they did not go through it with children. I'm most definitely going to take your side on this. It's hard, especially finding study time with children. It is probably the hardest thing in life you will put yourself through. Take the summer and take a good break and then either go back to the same school or research other schools. If you want to be a nurse, you go and be a nurse. Do not let anything or anybody tell you that you aren't good enough to be there to save someone's life one day. From now on, skip to the math questions first and do those then you will know how fast you need to get through those multiple choice and select all that apply questions. Read your chapters. That's where those questions are coming from. Do the extra study questions under your book's resource website. That helps you get a better grasp on what you read. Mainly, do what you want to do with your life. It is yours and nobody else's. Stay motivated if this is what you want to do. Don't let this defeat you.

[Here.I.Stand, BSN, RN]

I think some have either forgotten how hard nursing school is or they did not go through it with children.[/Quote]

I can't speak for everyone, but my memory is quite intact, and I had a newborn AND a job.

What amazes me is that at my hospital, I can think of half a dozen women who have had babies during their SURGICAL RESIDENCIES. The difference in difficulty between nursing school and surgical residencies -- and in these women's cases, managing our ICU from 1600-0700 -- isn't even a comparison.

They don't even have to make excuses, because they get it DONE.

[natalieonaje]

Don't be discouraged. At least you had some very helpful teachers who were willing to help you. If nursing is what you really want to do, apply to another program. You obviously have the heart and dedication for this field and you will be successful the next time. I'm rooting for you!!!!