been meaning to write this for awhile.... pls excuse typos. per tos of service.... just opinions pls.... i have been in the healthcare field for ~18 yrs.... i am thinking maybe i am so immune to this situation that is i do not have the feelings that i should.... i do believe my mom has started down the road towards dementia/ alzheimers. for every medical problem that comes up, i am blase about it...... (and there have been multiple, also should mention she has many CV issues) today she mentioned very matter of factly that she couldnt find my dad, did not know where he was, etc.... my dad passed away in 2007. everyone else that heard that was upset and crying, etc.... but i was just thinking "i am not suprised" what is my problem?