Do you ever feel like you will be a student forever?

babycakes78 · Aug 18, 2006

Nobody understands this nursing school process, they think you just sign up and you're in.

I totally co-sign on this statement. Yesterday, over lunch, I was talking to my sister about how I can't wait to be done with Micro and A&P so that I can apply to the local nursing program. She said to me "But its at a community college...why don't you just register for the nursing program and start taking the classes now?" Like its really that easy. LOL

stpauligirl · Aug 18, 2006

Hey guys! I feel like if anyone could see where I'm coming from it would be you guys! I feel like I am going to be a student forever! My frustrations may come from the fact that I am taking 14 credits this summer (3 weeks to go!) and simply my brain just hurts! I guess I could do some background here. I graduated 2002 and went straight into college not knowing what I wanted. Then first semester got sick and had to have surgery and ended up only being able to use one grade from that semester. Took a year off to recover and figure out life, then took a 10 month MA course. After that I was sure nursing was for me so Spring of 2005 got into the CC and started taking classes. I now have 55 credits and this fall will finish my final 13 credits to finish all pre-req/co-reqs/required core curriculum for associates & bachelors degree. I guess it's not bad to finish 52 credits since spring of 2005 (I also work full time usually min. of 50 hours/week, no kids yet just a hubby) It's just so frustrating that everyone knows I've been going to school forever yet they don't understand why I don't know when I'll graduate. Nobody understands this nursing school process, they think you just sign up and you're in. I am getting ready to apply for nursing school and I'm just terrified that I won't get in. I know that I'll never know until I apply, but I just feel like I'm not the best. I'm an A/B student which is good considering my demanding job. But sometimes I have to prioritize classes and what I'm studying for with my time allotted and just can't pull out straight A's. I guess I will see the light at the end of the tunnel when I finally get to the point of getting in a program, but all the uncertainty is just so frustrating! Does anyone else feel like their life is on "hold" for school? I'm to the point where I want to start a family, but have to put it on hold for school.

I am 46 and it seems like it will take me 100 years, I hope I'll have enough years left on this planet to get into nursing school and 20 years employment towards retirement.....and of course spend that retirement money on other things than dentures, depends, a walker and a coffin :lol2:

lisabeth · Aug 19, 2006

Yes, it definitly feels that way, but try not to focus on that. Focus on the end result. :nurse:

lisabeth · Aug 19, 2006

I am 46 and it seems like it will take me 100 years, I hope I'll have enough years left on this planet to get into nursing school and 20 years employment towards retirement.....and of course spend that retirement money on other things than dentures, depends, a walker and a coffin

I cant believe you. You will get there before I do. Calm down :lol2:

lauralei19 · Aug 23, 2006

yeah, it bothers me too that i see stuff in the papers about people i went to high school with doing all these "wonderful" things with their life, and everybody keeps asking me what i'm going to college for and when i'm going to graduate. my own bf asked me last semester why i was just taking courses to fill up my schedule. he says, isn't that a waste of time? that kinda made me look and realize. but anyway, i'm rambling on. the point is, it doesn't matter how long it takes me to get through nursing school, i will get through it. and when i do, it won't be for them, it will have been for me and my babies. that's all that really matters anyway.
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good for you for having determination and thinking of your kids!

i think i would have smacked my boyfriend if he ever said anything like that to me -- taking classes to get your nursing degree is a waste of time? like you probably have tons of time to waste, and tons of money to spend, right? goodness. he should be so proud of you! it's tough to get into nursing school; it's even harder when a significant other isn't as supportive as they need to be. speaking from experience on that one.

keep that determination -- it sounds like you have your life figured out!

Ike Arumba · Aug 31, 2006

Sorry it took so long for me to respond. I guess I didn't clarify that. My bf was wondering if I was wasting my time in college because at that point i hadn't decided i was going to take nursing courses. I was still stuck in the What Do I Want to be When I Grow Up? phase of college. Hope that clarifies it a little. He is very supportive of me going to college to become a nurse.

lauralei19 · Aug 31, 2006

Sorry it took so long for me to respond. I guess I didn't clarify that. My bf was wondering if I was wasting my time in college because at that point i hadn't decided i was going to take nursing courses. I was still stuck in the What Do I Want to be When I Grow Up? phase of college. Hope that clarifies it a little. He is very supportive of me going to college to become a nurse.

Oh, okay!!! Good thing :rolleyes: Good luck!

kimmierue · Sep 7, 2006

Uhmm...everyone seems to make is sound like nursing school takes forever. I have it planned out in my head that I'm taking pre-nursing part time, so that will take me about 2 years...then Nursing school is 3 years. That is 5 years altogether give or take a little. Does this sounds right to anyone? Has it ever happened like that or am I dreaming? LOL

I'm starting to get discouraged and I don't even start my first class for another 2 weeks. Oh lord.

so_buggie · Sep 7, 2006

Uhmm...everyone seems to make is sound like nursing school takes forever. I have it planned out in my head that I'm taking pre-nursing part time, so that will take me about 2 years...then Nursing school is 3 years. That is 5 years altogether give or take a little. Does this sounds right to anyone? Has it ever happened like that or am I dreaming? LOL
I'm starting to get discouraged and I don't even start my first class for another 2 weeks. Oh lord.

On average, a BSN takes 4 years. But there are classes like anatomy, biology, etc that can be difficult to pass. If you get a C or better in all of your classes you should have no problems graduating in 4 years with a BSN. Just make sure you take all of your pre-reqs your first year. I didn't take chem (which is the only pre-req i didn't have) and that is the only reason why i didn't get in to the program. Try and keep your head up.

Spill, RN · Sep 7, 2006

KimmieRue: take it from us...I wish someone would have told me. Make As....even then that doesn't guarantee you a spot, but the better your gpa, the more likely you will gain acceptance into a nursing program, it is very competitive.

I wish somone would have told me. I just took all the required pre reqs..filled out an application and ...rejection! "we are sorry, you are qualified, but unfortunatley we can only offer acceptance to a few students, you were not as competitive" I have a folder filled with these...finally I realized, I need to go back, retake these classes that I made Bs in and turn them into As....not an easy task, when you work full time and go to school part time.

It's been a long road, but I've learned along the way...if you want it, you can have it, just do what is expected! and that's a 4.0

Good Luck to you, maybe your road won't be as long! Best wishes!