Disgusted to say this.. 4 misdemeanors before facing demons

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    • Prove continued recovery, dedicate to school, give it everything
    • Realize mistakes in the past follow you around for a reason and give it up

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Hello. I know this is a touchy subject and I know nursing is an amazing profession and I feel so deplored that I have to bring in my terrible moments in history in considering a nursing education and career! I'm in Ohio, 31 years old, and I between the ages of 19 and 26 I received 3 or 4 misdemeanors :sarcastic::cry:. At 19 (12 years ago) I was around alcohol and received a minor in possession (did not have anything in my hand- none the less..:yawn:). At 21 or 22 (about 10 years ago) I was on my way to work and a guy pulled right out of his driveway and then if that wasn't bad enough he exited his vehicle so although I knew our cars were close together I went around him and on my way.. It turns out the corner of my fender slightly scratched the corner of his bumper so I was issued a ticket for a hit skip eventually convicted of a disorderly conduct :no:-- I should have stopped my car and not gone around him, ugh (I don't know if this one was a misdemeanor and I was not arrested-- I'm ordering my records, and and FBI and background check next week)! And, now for the big guns that I deserve to be ripped to shreds for... In 2008 at age 24 I had went out after work and was going to go home when I got a phone call for help from a coworker. To make a long story short I went against my better judgement and to make matters worse I had a drink. Leaving the bar she asked me to drive because she'd had a driving under the influence already.. so I did and immediately got pulled over and got one myself. I thanked God no one was hurt and believed that could never happen to me let alone ever happen again. Well in 2010 at 26 I was working for an establishment which was just getting off the ground and the restaurant owner paid us in IOUs and alcohol. I always declined but I was at the messy end of a messy relationship, hadn't eaten much or slept much, had been seeking help for sliding into depressed and anxious state, and my Grandfather was terribly ill and that very day made a minor improvement. Anyway I got a second dui:cry:. I thank God everyday no one was ever hurt. Also, never any property damage or accident. Around that time I heard of several cases of multiple conviction cases where people had been killed by drunk drivers and I knew I had to stop drinking so I did and I have not since. I go to AA for the sober support and environment and socializing. Nursing has always appealed to me, but in the last year or so I have really been pulled towards it. I know this is not a legal forum but I'd really like to hear your thoughts if you think I could become a nurse with my record. I want to give my all to nursing and have a career helping people through their illnesses to heal, recover, and understand the processes, etc. I'm desperate to hear other's opinions, especially you guys who are invested in nursing. Whether you have encouragement or discouragement, would you please share what you think! Can a person turn their life around and become an amazing nurse (legally/from your point of view/just your plain old opinion/your experience/etc.)!?

I did talk to a licensing expert who thinks I'll have more hoops to jump through besides nursing school but eventually will be a licensed nurse in one way or another. I am still desperate for your thoughts/opinions! Thank you

Specializes in ED, Trauma, Swat,Critical care, Peds.

A record as such will make any job area of interest more difficult. If you listen to other people telling you things can't be done, you will never prosper. At the end of the day , you have to follow your gut instincts. If you truly want this , it's very achievable. People been telling me things like that all my life and it's just fuel for motivation. I say do it.

Specializes in ER, ICU/CCU, Open Heart OR Recovery, Etc.

Not sure what the law is in your state, but is it possible for you to get the convictions expunged?

I sent you a pm. All the best to you.

I would see if I could get a job at a health system that supports you- your foot could be in the door as a unit secretary or other supportive role. You might even just try with getting a CNA license...

Mistakes should not follow you around for the rest of your life- but they can or do if you are not in the privileged class. I would hate to give the advice to go for it knowing that financially it could put you in a terrible place, and emotionally you will have invested a lot in this too. Just because the system is failing people, does not mean that you are a failure.

If this is really your passion- take some preliminary steps to test the waters- otherwise find another path to take and put your energy there.

I sent a message back to you, NJnewRN!!! But a message said that I have not posted 15 times so I have to wait! I really appreciate your timely message, and when I can I will write you back! After this post, I'll have 6/15 messages lol ;):inlove:

Specializes in Psychiatric Nursing.

It might be too early to consult with a lawyer but maybe not. It would be good if someone could help you with the BON to see exactly what are the hoops. I have heard of support groups for health professionals in recovery --I don't know what STNA is but you might qualify as a health professional. Also AA might have groups for sober health professionals. I say go for it--at least look into it and see what is doable. Best wishes!

Thank you for your encouragement. I know it might seem like I'm trying to force this to some, and to some who are going through this might wonder how I could volunteer myself for the scrutiny. However, I am not going to force it, but I am following all doors that are at least ajar or open.. my heart truly breaks and goes out to anyone who may have found out all of this after nursing school was complete. It is like trying to overcome fire breathing dragons. I do believe that it is for the protection of the public, of the nurse, and hate to say it but it is necessary. However, I also believe the system must be revamped for the nurses who completed school without knowing this..it's a terrible feeling and a huge fall from the pride of finishing school and the unrealized dream of starting fresh! Anyway, It's going to torture me for years, but it is necessary! An STNA in Ohio is State Tested Nursing Assistant-- basically a CNA with a state test. You are brilliant, Psychcns, I guess I might qualify as a health professional! Thank you for your well wishes, and all the best to you!!

My daughter went to nursing school with a young lady who had a serious conviction on her record. The school administration advised her in the beginning that the chance of her getting a nursing license was close to zero before they took her money. She signed a document stating that she understood this. She wanted to graduate from nursing school as a personal goal, even if she was never able to work as a nurse, so this arrangement was ok for her. It wouldn't be ok for someone who had a family to support and was unsure whether or not they could be successful in their goal of becoming a nurse or becoming employed as a nurse.

I wonder what the charge was. I would definitely need to work after graduation asap- but no one to support. Very interesting, thank you!

Wonder what her crime was, I should say :blink:

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