DH dying-need prayers

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I've posted before about my husband being terminally ill and complications that have come up, but this is the worst it has every been. Currently in ICU with ARDS and sepsis, placed on dialysis yesterday. On a vent, paralytic, the whole works.

Miraculously he has been showing signs of improvement. CXR went from a complete white out to having distinguishable upper lobes, heart, ET. That was amazing. Has been running a PEEP of 20. Went in this morning to a stunned looking pulmonologist telling me that the lungs are regaining some elasticity so they got the PEEP down to 8. (PTL!)

I have been glued to his bedside but am home tonight as I had nobody to take care of our 5 year old. Besides she is desperate for some mommy time and vice versa. I was actually sleeping peacefully and his brother called and woke me up. Couldn't go back to sleep and felt God telling me to get on here and get as many prayers as possible going so that dh can get over the hump. My brother in law is an atheist but I continue to witness to him about God in my life and God's ability to heal if it is in his will.

Please, all you that can pray, please help me out on this one. His name is Dan and I love him more than anything. He had not made a decision for the Lord before he was intubated so that is a big reason for wanting him to wake up and have one more chance.

Thanks in advance to all. You guys are wonderful support.

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Prayers have been said!

Specializes in OB/GYN,L&D,FP office,LTC.

I praying for your husband and family.

Specializes in Critical Care, Pediatrics, Geriatrics.

I can only imagine your pain and distress. You will be in the forefront of my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and faithful.

Your husband, you and your daughter are in my prayers.

I'm so sorry. You are all in my prayers.

I have just prayed for you and your husband and will ask others to do so also. How blessed you are that you know the Lord and have Him to be your strength in such a difficult time. God bless you and keep you in His grip.

Specializes in Pediatrics.

Prayers are said..

God be with you and your family and especially your dear husband Dan.

Hello,

I'm sorry to hear about what's going on with you and your family. I want to let you know that I included you and your family in my prayer so that He will help you and your family get through this.

Specializes in LTC.

God be with you, Dan, and DD, Joey. :kiss

My brother in law is an atheist but I continue to witness to him about God in my life and God's ability to heal if it is in his will.

I too, am an atheist. However my thoughts are certainly with you during this most difficult time.

Mostly, my ((((HUGS)))) are with you! Hang in there!!!!

(((MORE HUGS COMING YOUR WAY)))

Specializes in pure and simple psych.

Warm wishes for you and your daughter. My dad died when my sisters and i were quite young. Even though he was not church-going, we had no reason to believe that he was less welcome to his spiritual heaven than the most pious person. Each person will find the way that teaches what he came to learn. "Thy will, oh Lord, not mine, be done"

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