Published Feb 19, 2013
missjayda
5 Posts
Hello all! I am relatively new to this site. I remember growing up I wanted to be a pediatrician or a nurse but my mom had told me nurses work long hours and your dealing with sick people so that derailed me. When I got to college I opted to go the Teacher route and received an associate in Early Childhood education. Now I am in a four year college, and I am in the speech program but pediatric nursing/ labor and delivery is my calling. I have a 9 month old son, and I would really like advice from moms with children on my situation. I would really love to go into a field where I will enjoy working and that is nursing. Right now I am a teacher assistant and even though I enjoy the kids, I dislike the politics in schools.
Music in My Heart
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If you want to be a nurse, you should head down the nursing path instead of the speech pathology path.
Depending how far along you are, you might consider knocking out the nursing pre-reqs, finishing your original degree, and then trying to get into a second-degree program (of which there are fewer with the combination of budget cuts and the new-grad glut).
If you're not too far down the path, though, you might want to bail out now and just focus on pre-nursing and core sciences.
The best path for you has many variables including your academic skill, your family situation, your financial situation, where you live, and your ability to relocate.
benegesserit
569 Posts
I come from a similar background - thought I wanted to be a teacher (my family has LOTS of teachers in it), and am a few credits short of an ECE degree. I discovered that nursing was a better match for my interests when I joined a volunteer doula program when my oldest was 2. Before that, I hadn't really been aware of nursing at all. I have no regrets about the decision - I can't imagine I'd actually enjoy teaching.
That said... if you're already well-invested in a speech pathology program, is there another path that would meet your goal without starting over? If you're working Per Diem for a hospital, you could likely easily work as birth/postpartum doula as well. SLP is one of the accepted health professions for becoming an IBCLC (lactation consultant).
Have you job shadowed either an SLP or a nurse? In different specialties?
Hey Thanks for your responses. Currently I am only taking one Speech class. I am currently in Lehman college so I am going to try take some pre reqs during the summer sessions. I shadowed the speech teacher at school and even though she was great, I can't see myself doing her job.
Is that a private school?
If so, and if the fees are anything like what I've seen at other private schools, I'd bail ASAP.
HouTx, BSN, MSN, EdD
9,051 Posts
Hmm - is your Mom a nurse? Just asking to see if you have a realistic picture of how nursing is different from other jobs and the potential impact on your personal life. As the mother of a very young child, how do you feel about working nights, weekends, holidays? The working schedule is pretty rigid & the most desirable schedules are reserved for more experienced staff. Staff nursing is highly regimented and task oriented - at least until you have sufficient experience/education to move into a higher level position. We're the bottom of the health care professional hierarchy with very little authority & enormous accountability.
Just want to make sure that you are seeing the reality & understand that it will probably take you several years of hard slog to make it into your 'ideal job'.