Confessions of a Job hopper

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My name is OnlybyhisgraceRN and I am a job hopper. Sigh. I started working at the age of 14 years old, I've had probably 20 different jobs over the past 10 years. My job history goes as follows:

Age 14- Mcdonald's for a year or so. I gained weight off of big macs, fries, and shakes. So I decided to quit.

Age 15- I worked as a dietary aide in a small community hospital. I left after a year for very stupid reasons.

Age 16- A shoe store. I quit a year later.

Age 17- I worked four different jobs. I worked at best buy for 3 months but was fired for letting a friend use my family discount. Then, I worked at marshalls for 3 weeks and quit due it being super chaotic and dealing with crazy customers. Next, I worked at michaels for 2 days... I honestly don't remember why I quit that job. My fourth job was as a student aid, I quit after 3 months because I became a CNA and wanted to work as such.

Age-18 I worked as a school health aide, and lasted 2.5 years. I loved the job so much that I planned on staying as a nurse. However, everyone stated" No, go get your clinical experience". And so I did. After I received my LPN license I left the school system. In addition to the school job I worked for 2 nursing agencies as a float CNA/Sitter.

Age-20 I worked as a LPN in an ALF. After a year I left, it was a new day on hell every single day.

Age-21 I worked in a LTC, which I loved. I left after a year due to schedule conflict with school and they did not allow PRN.

Age 22- I worked in subacute/LTC facility, another ALF, methadone clinic. The subacute and ALF were hell holes. I loved the Methadone clinic but I was PRN and they never had any hours. I also worked for 2 peds HH agency. I hated it because I felt like an over paid babysitter. My last job for this year was a PRN school nurse job for an agency that I'm currently employed.

Age-23- I worked at a subacute facilty , I quit after three months when I received my RN license to pursue the "almighty" hospital experience. I then got hired into a CVICU. I lasted 7 months there( that is a thread all by itself, literally).

Now I'm 24 years old and I find myself starting another job next week. All I can say is that I'm tired of job hopping. My long term goal is to find my home in nursing and stay there until I retire. Why is that so hard for me to do??? I feel so pathetic.

Hopefully this year will be different, and I'll find my self at the same place by the end of the year.

Specializes in being a Credible Source.
My name is OnlybyhisgraceRN and I am a job hopper. Sigh. I started working at the age of 14 years old, I've had probably 20 different jobs over the past 10 years. My job history goes as follows:

I'm a job hopper... but not by choice.

Newspaper delivery

Pumping gas (back in the 'full-serve' days)

Ice delivery to rich guys

Marine avionics technician

Mortuary retrieval technician

Warehouse laborer

Secretary (little did I know how beneficial it would prove to be a skilled typist)

Research engineer

CNC Machinist

Park administrator

Precision machine designer

Technical writer

Math and science tutor

Process engineer

Substitute teacher

Manufacturing engineer

Med-surg nurse (1 yr)

ED nurse (2 yrs)

ED nurse (1 yr)

ED nurse (present job)

Two stints on unemployment twice...

In every case, I've left either due to being laid off, afraid of being laid off, or to step up to a new position with better pay or more responsibility.

My newest job, hopefully, will be the one from which I retire (with an actual defined-benefit pension) in 20 years.

There are some real benefits to having worked in so many roles, at so many places, with so many people:

1) I've become very adept at integrating myself into existing work cultures

2) I rarely come across 'new' personality types, either coworkers or patients

3) I am comfortable working through that initial period of awkwardness when you don't yet know what to do, who people are, and where things are.

4) I can often find points of commonality with my patients

5) I can easily compare good employers with not-so-good ones...

...and I know how good I've presently got it and am grateful for every day that I ~get~ (not have) to go to work.

I too have worked like 15 jobs. No need to stress about it just don't ever include or tell your potential employer allll about it. I think (I speak for myself), I am a serial job hopper because I get seriously bored if I'm not challenged. Maybe that is you too? Try to find a job that will continuously challenge you, keep you on your toes, mentally/physically/spiritually/whateverly. Perhaps furthering your nursing education would help you explore some better areas of work.

Good luck!

Specializes in Med-Surg, NICU.
Sounds fine to me- high school and college jobs don't really count (I literally had 20 of those), and you had a few since

your nursing career started a few years back. You're allowed to try things out and make mistakes- remind yourself that you

are only 24. Most of the nurses entering the profession these days are in their 30s and 40s (at least where I live).

I disagree. Three of my jobs have been related to health (one sitter job at a hospital and 2 PCA jobs that I currently work) and these have all been in college. I even think it is important to include Mickey D jobs to show how far the worker has come.

If anything, an employer can look at those jobs and see a consistent work ethic, the ability to keep and maintain a job, to be responsibile as well as upwards mobility in said jobs.

Specializes in Med/surg, Tele, educator, FNP.

I wouldn't feel so bad, some people like myself stay at a job for 12 years and then get so used to it they can never leave. Keep up the good work and at least at the nursing jobs you stay mostly a year! You will eventually find what you want.

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my friend, that is nothing and this is coming from a 50 year old nurse aide.... over the past three years I have had countless of can jobs, fast food jobs, sitter/caregiver jobs, etc. but at least I have been the most stable being a can or a caregiver. but I was totally burned out of it all. jobhopper would definitely be me. you have to live with you. I get burned out so easilty but been a can/nurse aide will do it to you. so I did a totally 180 degree turn which has worked for me the past several months. I like being a can so I work one weekend night/Saturday night from 11 to seven am. being a nurse aide to keep my license. and during the week I work as a server for a restaurant in the early afternoon to early evening and a couple mornings from 6 am to 10 or 11 am working at a fast food restaurant. so I work three part-time jobs/make sure the time does not run in with the other. which does not burn me out at all except keeping my schedule straight. and the hours are long enough to keep me going but short enough so I do not burn out. when I was a nurse aide I would get crazy shifts/different halls all the time not time mention I would have to work in the dinning room/serve the food, clean up which is not what I consider part of my job as well as unplug toilets and listen to all this nonsense they preach and as for being employee of the month would always go to the same person/persons. the nurse who is a prn and comes in on a Saturday for four hours between lunch and dinner. you know the one who is an actress and will wear long earings which is a definite no/no but she will give these dumb speeches how her job is so rewarding which is a bunch of garbage because you the nurse aide do all the work and still get treated like crap and are underpaid. breaking my back because some overweight diabetic wants me to strain my back because she is to fat/lazy to start walking herself and refuses a gait belt or it does not fit her. I work with this caregiver who will not use gloves and I will always wear mine and she will leave a pile of dirty baby wipes and expect me to pick up after I got rid of my gloves and stated that is your mess if you fail to wear gloves and put it in the trash bag and expect me to pick up your contaminated mess after mine is in the trash and I wore my gloves and the gloves are in the trash your mess is on you. if you think I am going to spend more time looking for gloves after I am done with mine because you decided not to put the dirty wipes in the trash and do not wear gloves well you can pick up your own mess. you made it you clean it up.....

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.

I have job hopped a lot. I can't even count the number of nursing positions I've had in the past 4 years. Number of LTCs, prisons, jails & pedi PDN. I was about to be at a job for a year when I go into an accident. I have a job now that I'm hoping I'll stay at for awhile.

Specializes in Critical Care.

although this may seem obvious, have u considered being part of a facility's "flex/float pool"team? if u have enough certifications, acls, pals, nrp, chemo, sedation protocols, you could have some varied and interesting shifts.

or you could work agency and maybe go to a different place everyday or 3 month stints in certain units, etc. have u considered this?

Specializes in Oncology; medical specialty website.
Thanks for all the encouragement. I have to admit. I'm not overly excited with starting in the ED next week, however I have to work somewhere to keep my skills up.

This too shall pass. I'll do my very, very best. Although, I know it won't be easy.

This comment is alarming. You sound like you are going into this new position with a feeling of resignation. Why did you accept a job in the ED if it's not something that interests you? I know you want to keep your skills up, but if you don't have a modicum of interest in where you're working, it's destined to be yet another one of those short stints to list on your resume.

I have job hopped over schedule and pay issues. Now I love the hospital but the unit is getting to be ridiculous with how it is run. I am hoping to get my year in so I can try for OR or mother baby training

Specializes in Med-Surg, NICU.
My first job was at McDonald's too. I lasted three months before quitting.I too am a job. I have had seven jobs in the last three and half years and I just started a new job nineteen days ago. I hope to stick around for about a year before finding something new.Always have a new job before quitting an old one.

And guess what? I'm not longer at ^ job either. Lasted there for 9 months, transferred, and now I've been in this new job for 2 months and 8 days.

Oops.

And guess what? I'm not longer at ^ job either. Lasted there for 9 months, transferred, and now I've been in this new job for 2 months and 8 days.

Oops.

Only time will tell but I'd be surprised if this behavior doesn't come back to bite you in the butt someday.
Specializes in CCM, PHN.

Job hopping is pretty common in nursing. Especially these days, when the stress levels are higher than ever, the regulatory requirements for education & certification are more and more demanding every day, and an almost complete lack of consistency with regards to technology and pay from job to job.

Add in a huge generational shift and policy issues affecting the health care system and I don't blame nurses for hopping around at all.

As much as I hated my scholarship contract job after I graduated (PHN for a federal agency for 4 years) it taught me a lot and I have a good solid chunk of time at one job on my résumé. Then I tried clinic nursing in a big fancy Magnet hospital and lasted less than a year, it was so awful. Then I tried HH nursing for about 4 months and quit that too. Now I've been a case manager for 1.5 years and it's a good job. But I know I could make more money and despite the little voice in my head saying "stay put," I'm always checking the jobs boards and networking because you just never know.

That all being said, OP, I would try and stay at one place at least for a few years if I were you, just to show you can. Not all hiring managers are sympathetic to the reasons why so many of us hop around.

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