I read a thread here suggesting that in the field of nursing, the agressive, loud, and obnoxious usually are the ones who make it through. I find it true not only in this field but in most aspects of human endeavors. I am basically nice, intelligent, hardworking, and I let my actions speak for myself rather than blowing my horn. I don't gossip about my co-workers or make them look bad to the others, especially to the boss. I have had several jobs in various fields before I took up nursing and I excel in my jobs. I didn't have problems with managers since they recognized my good works and they gave me fair treatment.However, I tend to be somewhat always in "trouble" with some co-workers wherever I go. They seem to find every reason to get into my nerves and make me feel bad even if I stay away from them and just did what I'm supposed to do. These people are usually the bullies and the gossips. I'm usually alone dealing with this thing because the other girls who are supposed to be "nice" hang out or cling with the bullies. People call me the "nice girl" but then I'm always into trouble----and disliked by some I have nothing to do with. Any words of wisdom?