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So I applied and interviewed at the three local hospitals, which are collectively part of one hospital system.

One of the hiring managers hired me, and said that human resources would follow up. The other two hospitals also told me that human resources would be in touch with me either way. A month and a half later I have not heard from anyone. I called several times and never had my message returned. Finally I got in touch with the manager who hired me and she told me that I posted on facebook a year ago the following:

Someone wrote on my wall asking where I'd like to work when I graduate. I responded saying my dream job would be at ******* but it's a long commute so I would settle for *******. I'm leaving out the names, but I said I would settle for working for the local hospital group, which just so happens to be the three places I interviewed. The manager said it is out of her hands and she doesn't know if I have the job or not.

Never in a million years did I think this would come back to bite me in the butt. I am VERY careful about what I do on social media. No alcohol, no swearing, none of that. I am so upset. Now it's almost 7 months since I graduated, I thought I had a job, and I don't. I'm worried that I will never find a job. The more time that goes by the more nervous I am and the less confident I feel I would make a good nurse.

Which leads me to my next question... Is there anything I can do while I am waiting for a job? I'd volunteer my time if it meant I could use and learn some skills.

I've wondered about that. My FB is set to "friends only" and my maiden name is in there, so if someone searches for the name on my resume they shouldn't find anything. I Google myself regularly but hadn't thought to check my email address. I have one email address on my resume for just job searching. My mom is always telling me that my FB posts (when I get another rejection) is hurting my chances but I don't see how it could if it's inaccessible to non-friends.

Check out spokeo.com--it's scary. Put your name in and it will pull up your address, a picture of your house, the names and ages of any household members, the value of your home, and for a monthly subscription will search 70 social media sites and give all that info too. You can remove yourself from there but it's still something to look into.

I just checked out that site and holy moly! That would be the prime action spot for any would be stalker! Learned stuff I didn't know about myself. That has got to come down.

At least now I know the property value of my house.

Specializes in Psych ICU, addictions.
I just checked out that site and holy moly! That would be the prime action spot for any would be stalker! Learned stuff I didn't know about myself. That has got to come down.

At least now I know the property value of my house.

How spokeo.com works is that it pulls stuff from public records. Basically, it doesn't contain anything that isn't public knowledge...but I agree, it is unnerving to see all of that info about you in one place.

You can write them to remove your listing from spokeo, but your info is still in the public records.

Yayyy! I'm glad you found something, Stephiee

I temporarily deactivated my account the last time I decided to start job-hunting. You could also consider a pseudonym. If your user ID gives away your name for this website, consider changing it.

How spokeo.com works is that it pulls stuff from public records. Basically, it doesn't contain anything that isn't public knowledge...but I agree, it is unnerving to see all of that info about you in one place.

You can write them to remove your listing from spokeo, but your info is still in the public records.

I got it taken down, but I know most of that information is still out there. :/ Now the creepers just have to work a little bit harder for it. Muahaha.

What's even more scary about Spokeo is that all the information they have on there is not accurate. I actually signed up on that site once (it was like $15) and they had all the pictures I had ever put on photobucket and stuff like that, but they also had a bunch of info that was totally inaccurate. I filed a dispute through PayPal which is what I used to pay for the service and got my money back by claiming false advertising which is what they did.

I also don't use my real name on FB . As to your cop friend please becareful your best friend today can be your worst enemy tomorrow.

I'm happy for you about your new job.

Facebook has privacy settings that you must not have been using. Nobody can see my posts except friends. You may have had your settings set to friends of friends, or acquaintances, or even friend requests. You can't even find my fb page or my name b/c I have the privacy settings high enough.

Specializes in geriatrics.

I've checked and double checked my FB just to be certain. Unless I "friend" you, you will not have access to my page at all. Even some of my friends have had trouble finding me after a search. I also have only 34 friends. I do not friend random people or coworkers. So unless a friend shows someone my page, they cannot view it. The privacy settings are there for a reason, and they work. Still, I would not post anything here or anywhere on the net that I'm not comfortable with. Self regulation is the key.

Specializes in ICU.

Congrats on the new job!!

As an aside, does anyone know if you can still restrict your entire page to "friends only" all at one time, or do you have to go through post by post now? Things seem to have changed since timeline started:/

Specializes in geriatrics.

I was on facebook today. Since timeline, everyone can see all your old posts, UNLESS you go into your old posts one by one and either select "delete post" or "hide from timeline". Anything I felt I didn't want people reading, I deleted, since they're older posts anyway. I also post pics other than my actual face for my profile pic. So even if someone accidentally found me, they wouldn't know it was me. Another way to circumvent anyone other than a "friend."

Specializes in Pediatrics, Emergency, Trauma.

I can google my name and its pulls EVERYTHING-even message boards. The issue is if you are going be Internet socially active, it's how you post. I was on another nursing message board site and she stated that she was not able to obtain a new job because of her comments on a thread that the employer deemed to be counterproductive to team work, and respect of management. I have a personal page as well as two group and two fan pages for social activities that I engage in, as well as a part if several groups related to my career and alumni networking. I had to not link a site that I made for a social group that I was a part of as a page on Facebook because the founder-and was a main administrator as well-her tact was not becoming, and I did not want to risk my chances of landing a job. My posts are inspirational pictures or quotes, sharing news information or other neutral information, and usually I'm not on fb only but every 1-2 weeks I will post. Most of our pages and accounts can be tracked on how often we post or on fb...that itself may be a factor on landing a job-if you post anything and everything at every second, chances are if it's between you and another candidate, you may not get the job because it's suspected that you are going to be on fb at your job, risking pt mortality and morbidity...We are held to stricter standards once we decide to pursue this profession. We are expected to be empathetic, professional and non-judgmental 24/7...but we are human too.

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