Published Aug 3, 2016
ToriAneal
26 Posts
Do you think that nurses receive a bad reputation for having a bad attitude? Is that something you have heard before? I have never worked around RN that has made me feel like " lower class." ( so to speak) or made me feel like " wow, he/she has a bad attitude today. When I did my externship back in 2011, every nurse I came in contact with was very nice to me. Sometimes we would even have a little chit chat. But some people tend of have a different out look on nurses. I honestly don't think it's fair. I have a few family members that work in the hospital and they feel like the nurses can be a little rude and at times and lazy. But once again, I have never had that experience. I honestly think the nurses are the heart of any company and their jobs are pretty freaking difficult at times. Even though I'am not a nurse, I truly understand. But my question is, is it something you hear a lot? And so does it frustrate you as a nurse for people to feel that way?
cardiacfreak, ADN
742 Posts
Rudeness does not come from being a nurse, rudeness comes from the person. And yes, I have met some rude nurses, I have also met rude waitresses, teachers, police officers, bank tellers, etc...
I know that. But I was just asking in general only because people tend to say " the nurses are rude." They tend to label them. That's why I asked. may I ask what you encounter was like as far as " rude nurses."
I have experienced rudeness from not answering a question and walking away to one nurse telling me I was stupid. This is not the norm and in my 20+ years in the business I have had very few experiences with rudeness towards me or the patients.
Sour Lemon
5,016 Posts
I have a few family members that work in the hospital and they feel like the nurses can be a little rude and at times and lazy. But my question is, is it something you hear a lot? And so does it frustrate you as a nurse for people to feel that way?
But my question is, is it something you hear a lot? And so does it frustrate you as a nurse for people to feel that way?
It's not something I hear a lot. And from what you say, it seems like you only hear it from your family and have had contrary experiences.
Ackeem, BSN, MSN, RN, APRN
381 Posts
Yeah some people are really nasty, and they're literally in every profession.
Yes I personally never had a bad experience. But besides that I've also heard it from a few co-workers.
You are absolutely right. I just try to keep a smile and move on when I encounter someone that is rude.
Wow. Calling you stupid? That was really out of order. The nurse at my facility told a few of my co-workers that they were beneath her and all they do for a living is wipe ass. I was like wow
I've wiped a lot of butts in my time. I don't mind, it has paid for a house and cars.
Lol I feel the same way. I've done it for years and I've never had to deal with being evicted, my bills have always been paid. I couldn't believe my boss made that remark. So much disrespect!
BuckyBadgerRN, ASN, RN
3,520 Posts
Unfair perception. Don't play into the myth.