Arguing with co-workers

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hello my fellow nurses. warning: vent!!

i have been working in my ltc facility for about 4 months now (first job). my floor is one of the heaviest floors (according to my adon). i love being a nurse but i am tired of working with nurses who are lazy, sometimes stupid, and bullies.

these nurses are making me so stressful at work. during my 3-month probabation, i didn't complain or argue with any of them but now i am finding my self arguing with 7-3 nurses because of the stuff they are supposed to do and passing them on to my 3-11 shift.

for example, we have a patient(female) who has a foley that needs to be irrigated q shift and if it is blocked then new f/c needs to be inserted. 7-3 nurse would irrigate it and would give in the report "foley irrigated but you need to use force" then i checked on it and the foley is leaking because it is blocked. how hard it is to insert a new foley? i did it and was done in less than 5 mins. how could a nurse leave a patient soaked in urine and don't do anything about it?

this same scenario happened so many times already. then when i tell them, all we do is argue. i am tired of arguing. and do you know what i noticed? the lazy ones are the ones that complains a lot. they are always complaining about little things and everything and making excuses.

i am a new nurse and i think some nurses think they can bully me around. i don't let them though(at least now i don't because i am off probation). i do not want to fight any more. should i just let these bullies get their ways and say nothing? i don't want to be a floor mat though. what's the best way to deal with these people?

i am probably not making any sense but i will appreciate your advice. by the way, i am a good nurse. my residents love me. my supervisor likes me because when i work weekends, my shift runs smoothly because i make sure everything gets done especially with the cnas. my cnas respect me because i help them as much as i can. in the beginning, they "tested" me but i was firmed with them. my first month at the facility (500 beds), i became employee of the month. i love my job but i am finding myself stress all the time. what should i do? my supervisor said why am i not working over time in weekends any more. i told her i am trying to relax a bit. anyway, thanks for reading!!

angel :banghead: (being an ltc nurse is tough!)

I am a recent grad and I have not started working yet. I ran in to a few female characters in clinicals. But what I want to know is why are some nurses so mean? Do you think it is the stress, being over worked and under paid? Most of the male nurses are laid back.

PS I am a female. But I was just wondering if it was maybe just a female thing. The mean girl syndrome or something...:nono:

Specializes in psych. rehab nursing, float pool.

Some people are simply unhappy, and share the wealth. Just my own opinion.

That is why I try not to personalize it. Not worth my time. I treat them as I want to be treated. What they do with it, is up to them.

Specializes in Wound Care, LTC, Sub-Acute, Vents.

thank you both pagandeva2000 and lpnflorida for the advise. i let "small" things go now. i save my energy for the "big" winnable battles.

sorry took so long for a reply. been busy with a lot of stuff.

oh and congrats for the ""guide" status pagandeva2000. you truly deserved it. you gave me a lot of good/excellent advice from the past. thanks.

Specializes in Community Health, Med-Surg, Home Health.
thank you both pagandeva2000 and lpnflorida for the advise. i let "small" things go now. i save my energy for the "big" winnable battles.

sorry took so long for a reply. been busy with a lot of stuff.

oh and congrats for the ""guide" status pagandeva2000. you truly deserved it. you gave me a lot of good/excellent advice from the past. thanks.

hope things are better for you, and thanks for the congrats! i am totally honored to receive this status. i guess people do think that my ramblings are valuable. :wink2:

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