Specialties Ob/Gyn
Published Jul 17, 2003
cometothecradle
20 Posts
I just resigned from my L and D job today. It was a forced resignation. Pretty much either quit or we we'll fire you. I was on orientation and my preceptor and I just didn't click. She would tell me I was doing well to my face and then tell the boss a different story. I was told I had a bad attitude and was defensive.
I have never had a negative review from any job. I need to write a letter of resignation, I don't what to say. It came down to I missed a few days of being sick and that was their "reason for dismissal". The head of the department said she would give me a good reference, can I believe her?
H ynnoD
65 Posts
Sarah, RNBScN
477 Posts
Contact a firm or lawyer for some "concrete" advice. Best of luck.
disher
190 Posts
For suggestions on writing a resignation letter see How to Resign With Style by Donna Cardillo,
http://www.dcardillo.com/articles.html
Keep your chin up, and start sending your resume out, the sooner you get into a healthier work environment the better.
bedpan
265 Posts
I know this hurts, but a couple things to think about - - -
First, if they are this way from the start consider yourself lucky that you aren't having to put up with them anymore! People like that can make any job a hell on earth!
Second - there is plenty of opportunity elsewhere for you out there - The next one could be that perfect place you need to be!
CseMgr1, ASN, RN
1,287 Posts
How about "Happy Trails to You?" Kinda nostalgic, but effective, just the same:D
Totone656
78 Posts
Well my resignation with the hospital was just a few sentences...
This is to inform you of my resignation which will become effective (insert date 2 weeks from when you are giving the resignation).
Sincerely,
1 Po'd, R. N.
gwenith, BSN, RN
3,755 Posts
Originally posted by Wendy M. Well my resignation with the hospital was just a few sentences...This is to inform you of my resignation which will become effective (insert date 2 weeks from when you are giving the resignation). Sincerely,1 Po'd, R. N.
This is all you really need to write - to write more especially abotu the way you feel you have been treated may not get you anywhere and might be used against you.
I agree with the others - if this sort of bullying was occuring during your orientation then it is a good thing that you are leaving especially after such a short time. Geting your next job will be a little harder but push on and you will find in time that this will merely be a blip in the road of your career.
idreamofjeannie
7 Posts
It probably wouldn't be worth the time and effort for a fancy or even plain barbed retort. I'd just keep it short and sweet, not unlike Paul Simon, there must be 50 ways...
Too bad if you really wanted to learn L&D, maybe you'll get the chance in a more friendly environment.
fulwood
110 Posts
Wendy - your resignation letter is perfect. Don't change it. I am sorry to hear of your "forced" resignation. What a profession...
Mu apologies 'Cometothecradle". WendyM's resignation letter would be a perfect one to use. I am sorry to hear of your predicament. You probably don't want to hear this but it might be best thing for you - sounds like crappy place to work anyway. You'll be fine - good luck...
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH, YOUR KIND WORDS HAVE MADE ME FEEL ALOT BETTER ABOUT THE SITUATION