The cases that break your heart - page 2
Heartbreaking cases are not uncommon in pediatrics... especially in pediatric oncology. I have seen some of the worst of the worst in my 5+ years of pediatric nursing. I've seen kids present with a... Read More
Dec 13, '12I had a kid once born with a preventable disease (to an extent). She was discharged as a newborn with follow up care all lined up...parents were homeless, and a whole lot of stuff happened. Last I knew she had a severe brain injury and had every complication known to man from all her problems. Parents continued to want her a full code despite obvious decline.
I worked at that facility for 6 months, she prob spent 7-8 weeks of my time there in PICU. I think about her often.
I know this is all very vague, but HIPAA is my friend...
Dec 17, '12Wow, there are so many stories, I can't keep track anymore.
But there are always things that's trigger some of the memories of the most emotional ones. Like, the other day, my daughter mentioned how the kids who were killed in CT would have unopened presents under their trees at home. It reminded me of a 16 yr old girl who came into the PICU, s/p MVA, bloody, unconscious and intubated. It was on December 23rd. When the shift finally ended at 7am, and the day shift nurses all came in decked out in Christmas gear, it hit me: this is where this girl and her family are spending Christmas. She held on for a few weeks, then passed. Every Christmas, the family comes in with a Santa, and brings presents to the kids on the Peds floor and PICU.
I've also worked in Peds oncology. The stories where no one listened to the parents complaints about their kids are the ones that always upset me the most.
I've also worked in peds long term/rehab. The ones that upset me a lot were the actual accidents. The ones where the stories appeared legitimate. I was a brand new parent at the time, so I couldn't say for sure that these things were unbelievable. Of course, some people did judge, and say "how can a parent let that happen?" Twelve years later, having been a parent, Peds nurse, aunt, girl scout leader, camp nurse, and friend to many mommies with young children, I can honestly say you never know what can happen under your watch. So,e of these things could happen to any one of us.
Dec 18, '12Pediatric cases are really heartbreaking. As a nurse, I love to take care of children who are sick especially those that are in Neonatal ICU, they are so fragile yet their heels need to be pricked many times. It's not easy to look at them experiencing such situation at an early age. Sometime, I got carried away that I can even think of them even If you are already at home.
Dec 21, '12ProfRN4, I have worked in peds LTC/rehab for a few years now, and I thought the same thing. It's scary how fast something can happen...
Dec 30, '124 year old received a trampoline for his birthday, and fell off it same day, hitting head on metal side (pre-mandatory-walled-trampolines). Went to local doctor straight away, and doctor did neuro tests and said kid fine. Kid fell asleep in car on the way home. They put the kid to bed when they got home (thinking the shock of it all had got to him). Kid was checked on a little while later, unconscious, shallow breathing. Ambulance called. Child had a massive haemorrhage and passed away.
Another case was first-time parents (with very minimal social support), and their newborn had a cold for 2/52, and they kept going back to the local doctor. The local doctor gave antibiotics and said she will be fine, she will be fine... They eventually took her to our paeds hospital and she was in full respiratory arrest. Came in, we vented her but she had sustained such massive brain damage the decision was made to terminate life support. The parents were so hysterical (mum bashing her head against the wall and dad walking around in circles in shock) they had to be sedated.
I don't blame the local doctors since I am sure they did their job, they just didn't know. Both times I went home and cried for those kids myself. Preventable? Maybe.
Apr 8, '13I once took care of a little boy in our PICU. 16 months old. Mom thought he was inside the house playing with his siblings. she went to move the family car out of the driveway. He was behind the car and his head ended up under the tires. This boy was in our PICU for a week. He never woke up, became a donor. I took care of this child daily and every day, I see the guilt in his mother's eyes, the tears streaming down her face. They are such a beautiful family and he was a beautiful child. It really broke my heart to see this family go through this. I'll never forget them.
Non-Accidental Traumas always breaks my heart too. Perfectly healthy kids, never the same again after. Always brings tears to my eyes... =*(
Apr 9, '13One of the first cases I saw as a student during our pediatric rotation was an 8mo baby who was thrown against the wall by his mother's significant other. The baby survived but with extensive neurological damage. He was transferred to LTC and after I graduated, I started to volunteer at that LTC. By then he was about a year and a half, able to breathe and eat on his own but had not achieved any gross motor milestones. Not crawling, not sitting up. He was also completely blind but able to respond to sounds and enjoyed being sung to or listening to music. A beautiful little boy who could have been a normal, happy child if not for some creep who I hope is still locked up.
There was another case that was on the news while I was in school, a 4yo child was brought in with severe injuries after being beaten by her parents and died in the emergency room. It was in the same hospital where I was doing my peds rotation and my preceptor was in the ER at the time. She was sobbing when she told us the story.
Apr 19, '13Yes, several cases but I always look at the lighter side, everything happens for a reason and that I did my best so I dont have anything to regret about.
Apr 20, '13Every single co-sleeping death. 100% preventable cause of death. But then, it would never happen to me............ makes me want to puke.
Apr 23, '13Quote from marycarneyEvery single co-sleeping death. 100% preventable cause of death. But then, it would never happen to me............ makes me want to puke.
I was called a judgmental b-word for mentioning the risks of co-sleeping to a so-called friend. Well, not to my face of course. She told OTHER so-called friends that I was being judgmental of her parenting choices. SMH....
Apr 24, '13Quote from uRNmywayTell me about it! For a while last year, Indiana was averaging one a WEEK. Disgusting.I was called a judgmental b-word for mentioning the risks of co-sleeping to a so-called friend. Well, not to my face of course. She told OTHER so-called friends that I was being judgmental of her parenting choices. SMH....
But then, we live in a society where telling someone 'NO' is considered the ultimate offense.
Apr 28, '13ANY kid that says (as you make your 3rd attempt at starting an IV) "Please don't, I promise I'll be good."
I have cried more than once with this-and I am a gray headed old man!
We recently lost a 6 year old who had been severely beaten by mom's drugged out boyfriend when she was just 3 months old. She was left with severe neurological damage. Thankfully she was adopted by her foster parents who were nothing less than God's special gift just for her.
I also will be going to court soon with a co-worker who lost a grandchild to shaken baby syndrome. That is one babysitter I personally would not mind pulling the plug on myself. Now if they would just arrest the mother . . .Last edit by typoagain on Apr 28, '13
Apr 28, '13A few years back I was volunteering at a school to teach kids french. This one little 4 yr old had behavioral problems, got aggressive, would yell and throw tantrums with the slightest bit of discipline, even time-outs. One day he pitched a fit, and when I went to try to take him away from the other kids so no one would get hurt, he yelled 'I want you to give me something to cry about!' I was hormonal and pregnant, but I had to leave the room for a minute, just started to cry. I reported it to the owner of the school, which was their policy. Dont know what the end result was.
Wonder how many times he was told that, or if they ever acted on the threat....