The Smelly Coworker

Dealing with a coworker who has offensive body odor can lead to an unpleasant experience for colleagues, patients, visitors, and anyone else who comes into contact with the person. The purpose of this article is to provide suggestions on handling the smelly coworker. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

I'm sure that the majority of readers have had the unpleasant experience of working in close proximity to a coworker who smells terribly at least once during their careers. If you have never had a coworker who stinks to high heaven or at least smells somewhat strangely, consider yourself extremely fortunate.

Predictably, everyone on the unit or ward is acutely aware that the person smells. In fact, everybody talks about this person's raunchy smell when he or she is not within an earshot. If the smelly coworker provides direct care, the more alert patients might discreetly mention the problem to other staff when this person is not around. Strangely enough, the smelly coworker is always the only one who is not aware that he or she is emitting body odor that offends others. It's a sticky situation.

Too often, nobody directly approaches the coworker about his or her noticeable smell. Instead, an anonymous group of colleagues may pitch in with some cash to purchase some toiletries, personal care supplies, and a basket. The coworker feels embarrassment, humiliation, and a figurative kick in the face when he or she later discovers a basket with bars of soap, deodorant, toothpaste, shampoo, and a nameless note with a blunt message to use these personal care items because he or she stinks.

Also, some colleagues spend years without even taking the anonymous route of getting the message to the person. They simply have learned to adapt to the person's stench. Ignoring the problem is not fair to the smelly coworker or the people who must work in the same quarters with the person.

Ultimately, it is the responsibility of the smelly coworker's manager or supervisor to confront this person regarding the strong body odor. Yes, I most certainly said it. Lateral colleagues should not be forced to deal with the smell, nor should they bear the responsibility of approaching the coworker regarding his or her offensive odor.

The manager needs to have a private, straightforward talk with the coworker. This is not the time for any hedging or indirect clues. The manager or supervisor should keep the conversation short and get to the point while employing a sympathetic, cool tone. "We're here to discuss your hygiene. You have an odor that is distinct enough to make your patients, coworkers, and others uncomfortable. Can I count on you to concentrate on this problem as soon as possible?"

Of course, the smelly coworker might be in denial and insist that they do not have an odor. In addition, certain health conditions result in body odor, and specific cultural foods and seasonings are odorous. If management has been made aware of the body odor and they refuse to address the issue, a brave colleague may arrange to have the private talk with the coworker.

Dealing with a coworker who has body odor can be distressing for all parties involved, but some sympathy, patience, and tact should go a long way. Good luck!

Seriously? I've liked your other articles but this one makes me feel icky. We are going make people bad and have them be disciplined because it offends our nose? You'd rather make your coworker paranoid for a lifetime?

How do I know this? Because I was brought into the managers office because a coworker complained that in the week that the air conditioning was broken I smelt. Me who takes two showers a day as it is. It's petty and it's mean and often it's untrue and it's just used as another method nurse to nurse relational agression.

So disagree.

I think there is a huge difference in your situatation and what Commuter had in mind.

I do believe your coworker was being petty, if the AC was out I'm sure everyone smelled a little weird!

However, if there is an obvious, continual lack of personal hygene, it needs to be adressed by a supervisor, as it is probably a violation of dress code or other related policy.

Specializes in (Nursing Support) Psych and rehab.

I agree with having a supervisor handle the situation. Anonymous baskets of toiletries may be insulting. Even comments like "don't we smell nice today"are not appropriate because it is not reality, which can be interpreted as sarcasm and can further cause insult and injury to the person. Body oder is not something that we should "just deal with". It can actually make people physically sick. But there is a respectable way of addressing it that can still afford the offender some dignity. When people have to work together it is important that everyone be respected and comfortable (as much as possible) in the work environment so that the tasks at hand can be accomplished

We currently have someone that has a bad smell. She smells as if she hasn't washed herself well in awhile. Her hair looks like it hasn't been washed in months either. She is a very lazy person in her professional life, so I am not suprised that she would be lazy when it came to personal hygeine. We have been told we can't say anything as it may offend her. Our manager won't say anything as she avoids conflict as much as possible. It's awful.

Xoemmy - - those are signs of serious depression, not mere laziness. It is important that someone adresses this. Go above your manager if necessary. Offending her should not be the issue here, getting her to a mental health professional is more important. Be kind to her, she may be in great distress.

I was on that cusp, and got help for myself. But not everyone has the insight to know what they need.

Specializes in Trauma.

I am not sure which is worse, BO or the stench of bathing in perfume/cologne. I once heard that perfume/cologne should be a gift to those that are close to you not an announcement you just entered the room.

I read once that Matthew McConaughey was "all natural", does not use deodorant. If that is true I bet he gets pretty funky after filming all day under those lights.

Specializes in Critical Care.

if you didn't use the term "smelly", this whole thread could be taken 10x more seriously

Specializes in Hospice / Ambulatory Clinic.
if you didn't use the term "smelly", this whole thread could be taken 10x more seriously

That's pretty much what made me turn my nose up at it. Smelly always seems to be correlated with other negative titles like dirty, messy and lazy and maybe even "fat"

Isn't that interesting . . . the word "smelly" seems to fit in my mind and didn't seem negative like "dirty, messy, lazy . . fat". Maybe because I'm the mother of 3 boys smelly seemed mild to me. :coollook:

I work hospice and am a school district nurse. We've had issues with pre-teens and teens who smell due to puberty issues and they need to be aware. I've had talks with them and with their parents. One family said they couldn't make their 12 year old son shower or bathe.

As to co-workers, I had a co-worker who became a roommate when I was in college. She was beautiful but had a terrible body odor. When she opened her closet door, the smell would knock you over. She had no idea she smelled of B.O.

I think people get so used to their own scent that they don't notice if they have B.O. or bad breath. I have a family member who gets out of the shower in the summer time and immediately his pits start to smell. And deodorant doesn't help.

I agree with Commuter - this should be a management issue and not done by co-workers.

Specializes in Case mgmt., rehab, (CRRN), LTC & psych.
if you didn't use the term "smelly", this whole thread could be taken 10x more seriously
Well, what term do you deem more appropriate? Stinky? Odorous? Stench? Reek? Body odor?

I cannot use the same term over and over due to tedious repetition, so I used a couple of synonyms in my writing.

Specializes in Oncology; medical specialty website.
sometimes we all have instances where we're not our freshest when we arrive for our shift at work. i dont think a person can be totally unaware of their own body odor. isnt it true that you usually smell yourself before other people do? however, if it happens once or twice a year then shame on you. i have went to work and occasionally forgot to put deodorant on; i keep a spare in my car now. i know that there are people from other countries and even this one who do not believe in using deodorant and some cultures where the women are considered "sexy and attractive" if they smell "musty". but we dont need sexy at work we need people who dont offend. what is the difference between smelling offensive and using offensive language in fornt of coworkers or patients? nothing, but its a whole lot easier to give hints on not using foul language than about foul odors. i actually prefer the almost subtle route of offering gum or offer me some. i found the easiest way to address a stinky person is to ask, as soon as i smell them, "whats that smell"- i think it makes them more self-concious, but maybe im wrong. i do think its a great article.

p.s- i dont think it is rude to address this with the person or a manager. most facilities have rules regarding personal appearances and body odor whether it be too much perfume or offensive body odor.:)

shaming someone isn't exactly the most diplomatic or professional way to go about effecting change.

Specializes in Oncology; medical specialty website.
i am not sure which is worse, bo or the stench of bathing in perfume/cologne. i once heard that perfume/cologne should be a gift to those that are close to you not an announcement you just entered the room.

i read once that matthew mcconaughey was "all natural", does not use deodorant. if that is true i bet he gets pretty funky after filming all day under those lights.

maybe that's why he always has his shirt off. got to "air out" every once and a while.

Specializes in Hospice / Ambulatory Clinic.
Well, what term do you deem more appropriate? Stinky? Odorous? Stench? Reek? Body odor?

I cannot use the same term over and over due to tedious repetition, so I used a couple of synonyms in my writing.

"Your Coworker: A rose that doesn't smell quite so sweet."

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