I'd say discuss with your wife first. I had to do that a few years ago when I started selling pampered chef. I told my wife that I would be around mostly female clients. (They've actually all been female so far.) She wasn't thrilled at first, but has gotten used to the idea. When I announced my decision to go back to school to be an RN, and that I'd be around a lot of girls she was okay with the idea. Just always talk to the wife first, then she can't come back and say you were trying to hide it.