At first I liked the job until I saw some major red flags (or what I thought to be red flags and I ignored them thinking what do I know I'm a new RN & maybe all LTC places were this way). A major incident happened yesterday when I came in for my shift & I was getting report from the day nurse & a patient's wife came to tell us that her husband was breathing funny. The nurse told her we would come & take a look at him, so this nurse tells me I don't know what that woman wants from me I've been back there all day checking his vitals & he's fine. I go into the room with her & immediately notice he's in trouble & I told her he needs to go out now because this isn't his usual behavior. He was mouth breathing, gasping for air, not talking at all & just out of it, I even saw his eyes rolling upward (which she says she didn't notice). The nurse said ok but I don't know what to tell the md because his vitals are fine. She call the md to get they approval to be sent to the hospital, now during her conversation with him she told the md perla (which she didn't check) and that he had strong pulses (she didn't check them at all, I did & I couldn't find one in his left arm and the right was very faint) she also told him his hand grasp was strong (he couldn't grasp your hand at all, his left hand was lifeless & the pads of his fingers were a funny blue discoloration) Later that night his family came to get his belongings, he had passed at the hospital. I heard a few people saying it was from an abdominal aortic aneurysm. I've never felt so bad in my life because this woman tried to tell the day nurses that this wasn't normal behavior for her husband & he suffered for several hours before I came in & made them do something about it.